Faith & Spirituality

Rajab Has Started... But Most Muslims Are Making This Mistake

By: Mufti Menk   December 31, 2025
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My beloved brothers and sisters, pause for a moment. Breathe. Without announcements, without noise, without fireworks, Rajab has already arrived. Most people did not notice. Most hearts did not stop. But the heavens did.

Rajab is not an ordinary month. It is not cultural tradition, nor a motivational slogan repeated every year. Rajab is a month chosen by Allah ď·». Allah tells us in the Qur'an that He creates what He wills and He chooses-He chooses places, He chooses people, and He chooses times. Out of the twelve months, Allah selected four and declared them sacred. Rajab is one of them. Not because people made it sacred. Not because scholars voted for it. But because Allah chose it. And when Allah makes something sacred, it means this time is watching you.

Rajab is not loud. It does not demand attention. It does not overwhelm with emotion. Rajab warns quietly.

Allah ď·» says: "So do not wrong yourselves during them."
Notice the depth of this command. Allah did not say, "Do not wrong others." He said, "Do not wrong yourselves." Because sin does not harm Allah-it harms you. And in sacred months, the weight of sin is heavier. Just as sin in Makkah is not like sin elsewhere, sin in Rajab is not like sin in other months.

Alcohol is always haram, but in Rajab it is more dangerous.
Backbiting is always haram, but in Rajab it cuts deeper.
Disobedience is always loss, but in Rajab it echoes longer.

Rajab reminds us of a truth many forget: time is not equal.

And here is what should truly shake us-Rajab is only two months away from Ramadan. The scholars used to say: Rajab is the month of planting, Sha'ban is the month of watering, and Ramadan is the month of harvesting. Yet if we are honest, many of us plant nothing in Rajab, water nothing in Sha'ban, and then wonder in Ramadan why we are exhausted, unfocused, and unable to continue.

Ramadan is not a magic switch. It is a harvest. And Allah is just. If you plant distraction, you will harvest regret. If you plant repentance, you will harvest light.

Rajab is not asking you to be perfect. It is asking you to be serious-serious about your sins, serious about your habits, serious about your direction. This is the month to say: "Ya Allah, if You allow me to reach Ramadan, I will not enter it as the same person."

This is the month of intentions-not dreams, not slogans. Real intentions:

  • Ya Allah, I will leave this sin.
  • Ya Allah, I will guard my salah.
  • Ya Allah, I will return to Your Book.
  • Ya Allah, I will clean my heart before Ramadan cleans my record.

Because the tragedy is not missing Ramadan.
The tragedy is reaching Ramadan unchanged.

Rajab is not emotional hype. It is discipline. It whispers late at night: Fix it now, before it's too late. And perhaps-this Rajab is the last Rajab Allah will write for you. So do not let it pass unnoticed.

Rajab is Allah knocking softly before Ramadan knocks hard. The question is not, Is Ramadan coming? The real question is, Are you ready to be forgiven?

Rajab Is Sacred-but Worship Must Be Correct

Love without truth can mislead, and sincerity without knowledge can destroy. Rajab is sacred, but not everything done in Rajab is sacred. This is where many hearts slip-not into sin, but into innovation.

When Shaytan cannot stop a person from worship, he redirects them to unprescribed worship.

There is no authentic hadith that establishes:

  • A special salah on the first night of Rajab
  • A special prayer on the 27th night
  • A specific fast because it is Rajab
  • A special du'a exclusive to Rajab
  • Or that 'Umrah in Rajab is more virtuous than other months

The Prophet ď·ş-who loved Allah more than all of us combined-never singled out Rajab with a specific act of worship. His companions, who were desperate for reward, did not invent worship either.

Ask yourself honestly:
If a special prayer in Rajab was beloved to Allah, would the Messenger of Allah ď·ş have missed it?
If a specific fast unlocked forgiveness, would the Sahabah have ignored it?

The religion is complete. We are not allowed to add emotion into legislation. Remember this principle forever: If it were good, they would have done it. If it were rewarded, they would have taught it.

Innovation often looks beautiful. It feels spiritual. But worship is not based on what feels right-it is based on what Allah revealed.

What Rajab Is Really For

Rajab is not a month of special rituals. It is a month of serious self-correction. It is about leaving sins early, training the nafs before Ramadan, repairing salah, and returning to the Qur'an slowly and consistently. Rajab is a training ground, not a festival.

Another dangerous mistake is delaying repentance. Some say, "I'll change in Ramadan." But Rajab teaches us something terrifying: sins in sacred months are heavier. Allah says, "Do not wrong yourselves during them." Meaning-stop now.

If a sin is destroying your heart, stop now.
If a habit is choking your rizq, stop now.
If disobedience is numbing your iman, stop now.

Ramadan is forgiveness. Rajab is eligibility. Not everyone who reaches Ramadan is forgiven-only those who arrive prepared. And preparation is not excitement; it is discipline.

A Practical Roadmap for Rajab

Rajab is not a lecture. It is a decision point.

  1. Repent sincerely. Sit alone. Name your sins honestly. Say from the heart, "Ya Allah, I am done." Not later. Now.
  2. Repair your salah. Pray on time. Pray with presence, even if imperfect. A repaired salah in Rajab becomes powerful in Ramadan.
  3. Reconnect with the Qur'an slowly. Five minutes daily is enough. Consistency matters more than intensity.
  4. Train your nafs. Lower the gaze. Guard the tongue. Leave at least one major sin now.
  5. Write your Ramadan intentions. Written intentions become commitments.
  6. Make du'a. Beg Allah to let you reach Ramadan changed-not just alive.

Rajab is quiet, but it is powerful. It is the hidden workshop where Allah reshapes hearts before the public month of mercy arrives.

Many will reach Ramadan. Few will be transformed by it.
The difference is Rajab.

So do not let this month pass unnoticed. Plant repentance, discipline, and sincerity now. By the time Ramadan arrives, you will not be chasing change-you will be ready for forgiveness.

May Allah ď·» allow us to reach Ramadan with softened hearts, abandoned sins, and souls yearning for Him. May this Rajab be the beginning of our return, not just another month on the calendar. Ameen.

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Author: Mufti Menk   December 31, 2025
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