Losing My Religion- a call for help
To the Homegrown American Sisters and Brothers
At present, our community in America, whether or not we are aware of it or acknowledge it, is engulfed in a decisive conflict, and we are taking heavy losses. Mass numbers of descendents of Muslims, converts, and spiritual seekers are forsaking the American Islamic community and many of these will inevitably abandon the religion. The confrontation is of course not military but rather is occurring on the intellectual plane. On one front our religion is being both subtly and overtly demeaned by the media. On another, anti-Islam websites are assaulting the faith with mostly discarded but now resurrected antiquated orientalist criticisms.
On another, an extreme, virulent and irrational interpretation of the faith has assumed, with a good deal of outside support, center stage on the world scene. On another, most mosques in this country impose in the name of Islam, traditions and beliefs of questionable necessity that obfuscate the fundamental message of God's last revelation to humanity and that are driving individuals from the faith in droves, and that serve to confirm for too many youth of Muslim parentage and American converts the overriding negative impression of Islam that society seems to hold at large. Instead of seeing a path to spiritual growth, enlightenment and fulfillment many of these disengaged Muslims start to see a stagnant, retrogressive, patriarchal remnant of a lagging culture, mired in meaningless controversies and hollow, lifeless formalism.
If this is going to be countered, it will require an immense and courageous intellectual effort, and those upon whose shoulders this challenge and duty primarily rests are the second generation and converts who have held fast to their faith despite the many challenges this has presented. It is you, the activist American Muslim youth and converts, though your numbers are small, who have been placed in a pivotal role. Through your American upbringing, you have come to fully know and understand the surrounding society, and through your love and commitment to God and your religion, in a milieu that constantly tests it, you have by nature and necessity become the crucial bridge between your faith and its future in this country. You are in the best position to rationally respond to Islam's detractors and to communicate and demonstrate to your fellow countrymen and women what it really means to be a Muslim. You think their think, talk their talk, and appreciate their confusions and concerns. You are also in the best position to reassess the vast tradition that has come down to us in the name of Islam. It is precisely because you have not been reared in a traditional Muslim culture and because you have been taught since your first day in school to search, question, critique, and analyze that you are the prime candidates to endeavor to separate religion from culture, to distinguish the essential to Islam from time and place bound interpretations. It is you who are best able to understand and communicate to the disaffected Muslim youth. This is your jihad (struggle), a jihad for minds and hearts, a jihad of intellect and reason.
So I encourage you to arm yourselves, my younger brothers and sisters, with books, and pens and personal computers, and all the other instruments of learning. And arm yourselves with knowledge of your religious tradition and the works and thoughts of its great minds of the past. But also arm yourselves with modern techniques of critical, analytical, investigative research, so that you can better study and critique past contributions in the Islamic sciences. Learn all you can in your coursework, and especially in such fields as religious studies, history, anthropology, and linguistics. Arm yourselves also, if you have the inclination and aptitude, with advanced degrees in these areas of research so critical to the project of reappraising our community's traditions. And arm yourselves with humility, because it is vital to objectivity, and with courage and perseverance, brothers and sisters, because you will be opposed from without and within the Muslim community.
And remember to always pursue the truth, for God is the Truth, and always pray for and trust in His guidance. And so arm yourselves also with steadfast devotion to your Lord, never forgetting that to Him, and Him only, you have surrendered-not to a tradition, or a school of thought, or a local community or culture, or scholarly legacy-and that your living, striving, sacrifice and dying, all is for Allah.
The article was excerpted from Dr. Jeffrey Lang's book entitled Losing My Religion, an in depth analysis of the current acculturation of the Muslim American identity.
Dr. Jeffrey Lang is Professor of Mathematics at The University of Kansas, Lawrence, Kansas. He is the author of two best selling works: Struggling to Surrender and Even Angels Ask: A Journey to Islam in America. Both Books have been translated into other languages.
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I disagree with his argument - in the Muslim world (and there is a world outside America), Muslims are going in ever-larger number to mosques, Quran readings etc... He needs to leave ths shores of America a bit
But like a true American tabloid, he writes w/o full investigation to make a buck and then gives some good naseehah at the end...
Authors think that they know more than the common man - the layman knows what he needs to do. Everyone knows what is right/wrong.
And you somehow seem to be blind to the fact that the man that you'd think as the leader of all literalists, Bin Laden is a millionaire. He was brought up in a family you could easily brand as literalist, the wahabbis. He has always had the so-called "literalist" mentality while he's making millions and he was never enjoying a decadent lifestyle. So is his second in command who is a paediatrician and surgeon. Just because they stood up against the American terrorism, doesn't mean that they do not care more for this life than the afterlife. They are just like anybody else having desire for this world, but what sets them apart is that they are willing to sacrifice their comfortable lives in order to fight American terrorism. So it's obvious that it's not islam that forced them to live in caves now... it's the tyrants who want to enforce "unliteralism" on them.
The fact is that there are so many rich muslims and are devout at the same time all over the world not limited to a geographical or geopolitical circumstances. They give so much for the cause islam, for dawah, charity, welfare, etc. (where do you think the so-called literalists got most of their funds from? *hush*) And yes they are literalists... they took the hadith that i mentioned in my earlier post literally... that's why they are rich! Not because of living in a prostitute culture.
You write "If "they are stuck on literal interpretations and promise of 'afterlife' and not worry about this life" as you said, there cant be a total of 10000 muslim millionaires living in UK.".
Now just think. Did they make all that money by being literalists or by ignoring literalism? By being a part and parcel of British Capitalism, which is contrary to Islam. I bet a large majority of these muslim millionaires don't go to mosque, don't pray (except to British pound), and don't listen to any mullah or his sermons. They probably are just nominal muslims, wearing finest british suits and ties, no beards, no turbans, and probably enjoy Scotch Whisky. Do you want all muslims to be like them?. Obviously, these muslims care more for this life (i.e., enjoying british decadence) than worry about afterlife.
Aaron, when you write, do some thinking.
- Ref: 49289
Imagine an ordinary heart patient advising a heart surgeon of how to do operations on his heart. He sure can't be taken seriously. That's the case with Mr. Romesh Chander, he's not even a believer in religion above all, but he's advising "the practitioners" of how to practice religion. He must be running out of points... ! You first have to study it, understand the concept and then practice it in order for you to prove your credibility and be taken seriously not merely parroting what those anti-islamic sites are saying.
If "they are stuck on literal interpretations and promise of 'afterlife' and not worry about this life" as you said, there cant be a total of 10000 muslim millionaires living in UK. Ref:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-557929/Two-million-Muslims-live-Britain-10-000-millionaires-reveals-Home-Secretary-Jacqui-Smith-visit-Pakistan.html
The Prophet (pbuh) said, The intelligent person is the one who acts for this world as if they were going to live forever and acts for the Next World as if they were going to die tomorrow... so "balance" is the key.
...I have no idea where the writer is getting this information. EVERY brother and sister I know have met, yes 100% have NOT abandonded Islam! I'm happy to say as a Catholic all the brothers and sisters come to our home and have found success in their love for their religious beliefs. As the minority masseeheyeen I can say I have never seen even the secular loose touch. The secular grasp to come back, not to exit, and I encourage them according to THEIR motivation to paray more not less. Maybe I'm fortunate because all brothers and sisters are welcome to celebrate Issa's birthday as they see fit in our family home! AND none have never abandoned their roots and religious beliefs, muhamdalallah!!!
I do agree with this article. The young people must be strong and intellectual. They have to learn as much as they can about this religion. I must say that my daughters community which is made up of young African-Americans take this religion very seriously. They have classes and are very into their studies and into raising and teaching their children about Islam. I personally have only met about 2 people who turned back from Islam. Honestly, I do not believe that they were Muslims in the first place. My daughters had it hard in school, and honestly this made them even more stronger in the faith.
Another thing, us reverts find that some of the muslims from other countries are not so welcoming to us as well. But guess what, we do not let that deter us or slow us down. My daughter always says it best, the religion is perfect, but the people are not. Take care my brothers and my sisters. And always, hold tight to the ropes of Allah.
Fatimah Muhammad
How many you know being killed for leaving Islam? When compared to the conviction Islam provides intellectually and spiritually, it is my understanding is that other faiths melts. Islam can stand and is standing heat of the all sorts of hatred, while other just melt in the day light. It is this conviction that keep a Muslim a Muslim.
Don't be naive and just parrot what those news channels are saying. Analyze for yourself and come to a conclusion.
Imran:
You did not get the point when I wrote that muslims and christians should revert to their original religion "Paganism". All I was looking for christians and muslims to do some hard thinking regarding the problems of their religions; if they cannot do that, then should revert to paganism. As expected, nobody wants to do any kind of thinking because they are stuck on literal interpretations and promise of 'afterlife' and not worry about this life; but they all complain about injustices in this life.
The whole thing was written as a satirical comment on the state of the two religions. It proved my point.
Your observation is excellent. Please keep commenting more frequently.
What I liked most about this article is the conclusion:
"arm yourselves also with steadfast devotion to your Lord, never forgetting that to Him, and Him only, you have surrendered-not to a tradition, or a school of thought, or a local community or culture, or scholarly legacy-and that your living, striving, sacrifice and dying, all is for Allah."
I am a great believer in surrendering to The One who guides and ultimately those who surrender receive the same truth as it emanates from the same source.
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Note to Brian Holt:
You write "Maybe these Muslims will embrace Biblical Christianity".
Nah. Better will be that muslims should go back to their original religion "Paganism". And same should be true of Christians; they should also go back to their original religion "Paganism" / Idol Worshipping. Cycle will be complete.
UNQUOTE:
It must be getting quite lonely in the land of idol worshippers that Romesh wishes for us to join him there. Kind of like worshipping the 8 limbed girl who was a "goddess" to many Hindus.
The one fear liberals and their pagan backers have is that those have turned away from God will wake up and realzie they are destined for Hell and repent.
That will leave monkey worshippers amongst the guaranteed people to enter hell first......
You write "I am Muslim American and have lived in this country for over 35 years. I have never met a Muslim that has left Islam for any other religion.".
Of course, you will not meet a muslim who has left for another religion. Don't you know that the penalty for leaving Islam is recantation / reversion to Islam within 3 days or death (and any muslim can apply that death sentence); now, who is going to dare reveal that a person was a muslim and changed his religion to something else?. Nobody wants to die. Don't be naive.
Masajids are overflowing with people specially on Fridays, Islamic schools are opening nationwide, Muslims are increasing in numbers, Islamic conferences like those held by ISNA and ICNA attract thousands, recently in NJ a networking group organized an event at a local hotel and they "sold out" with people wanting more such events in future....so hold on to your hats we are a thriving Ummah, naysayers notwithstanding.
You write "The Muslim community needs to discuss these issues more in depth and accept that practice of faith in the U.S. is different than other countries".
Julie:
The moment muslims start discussing issues, they will tear themselves apart. Literalism is too ingrained in muslim societies all over the world. "The gates of itjihad (i.e., independent thinking) were closed about 700 years ago and have not been opended. The moment somebody starts opening those gates even to a little extent, the mullahs and other literalists will be up in arms. If Islam can be different in US, then it can be different in every country and even within countries, a concept unacceptable to literalists (i.e., the people who believe in literal interpretation of Koran and hadiths). It will destroy the unity and universality of islam.
There is plenty of freedom in the west and muslims have not discussed any issues of Islam, not to talk of discussing them in the predominantly muslim countries where there is no freedom; anybody looking for changes will be considered blasphameous.
Discussing relationship of muslims and other religions in US is NOT discussing issues of Islam itself.
All muslims can do in US is to practice whatever they want and forget any discussions regarding Islam lest they be branded apostates. Fundamentalist thinking is too strong among muslims to be eradicated by mere talk and discussion.
Muslim community needs to discuss these issues
more in depth and accept that practice of faith
in the U.S. is different than other countries
and understand that it is not wrong! I also wish
the Muslims would identify more with the various
Christians faiths more so that we may learn from
one another.
You write "Maybe these Muslims will embrace Biblical Christianity".
Nah. Better will be that muslims should go back to their original religion "Paganism". And same should be true of Christians; they should also go back to their original religion "Paganism" / Idol Worshipping. Cycle will be complete.
Anyway, onto the sort of stuff I usually say.
I think:
"If this is going to be countered, it will require an immense and courageous intellectual effort, and those upon whose shoulders this challenge and duty primarily rests are the second generation and converts who have held fast to their faith despite the many challenges this has presented." Sounds a bit overly dramatic.
I'm very surprised the author encourages criticism of Islamic achievement. If you want help getting started on the good points of Islamic history go on youtube and type in "Islamic Inventions - 1" and look at part 2, 3 etc if you wish. On youtube there is also "1001 Inventions: Muslim Heritage in our World"
Anyhow, onto somethin' a bit more Uncle Logickey; ie... .. THE BAD POINTS!!
If you go on Wikipedia (it's not 100% accurate, you may wish to look at other sources too). and type in "Suleiman the Magnificent" yep, nice guy, great contributor modern law, lived to be 71. however, look at the others like Murad III, he was totally greedy. Mehmed III and Murad IV, were brutal. None of the Ottoman Sultans (except a couple of the very first) lived longer than European Monarchs. between the death of Suleiman I and the crowning of Abdulaziz not one of the Sultans lived to celebrate his 65th birthday. Also, we all know there was a lot of killing in the European royal families, But few point out this was also the case in the Ottoman royal family.
Also, Three of the first four Caliphs were murdered. Sure there were leaders like Saladin, this man was extremely rich but ended up bankrupt because he gave so much away to charity, however, many jump to the conclusion that Saladin was a typical Muslim king rather than the best of the best, I don't think Islamic history books place such an emphasis on Muslims like Timurlane.
What was the driving force behind this sea change? If you read the writings Ibn Arabi, he mentions particular Muslims of Andalusia Spain who endeavored to inject the truths and high ideas of Islam into Europe. The result of this was a threat to the power of the church and the church launched the reconquista. One cause of the reconquista being successful sited is the division within the ulma between the Berbers and the Arabs that the Berbers accused of being discriminatory. (A lesson to be learned .)
So while contact with Islam lifted Europe out of the dark ages, contact with Europe plunged Islamic lands into a dark age.
The author fails to recognize that the very attributes of the west that people champion are the truths and high ideals of Islam and that the disaffection the youth feel is not toward Islam but the dark ages imposed upon its peoples. Quote( a stagnant, retrogressive, patriarchal remnant of a lagging culture, mired in meaningless controversies and hollow, lifeless formalism. )End quote. ie. The dark ages.
They are not drawn toward the church or the lowness found in parts of western culture, which would be to insult the perspicuity of their parents in instilling justice within them. What they are drawn to is the embodiment of Islam within the west. In this they represent a fifth column of democracy to both the west and the Islamic lands. Do not be discriminatory toward them. The enlightenment was interrupted before it could fully mature.
"The haq doesn't need people. People need the haq"
People should be proud and feel happy as they revert to Islam.
WBT
9:34 O ye who believe! there are indeed many among the PRIESTs and anchorites, who in Falsehood devour the substance of men and hinder (them) from the way of Allah. And there are those who bury gold and silver and spend it not in the way of Allah. announce unto them a most grievous penalty.
author mentions. I have felt very isolated at my local mosque
since a particular culture dominates there and they tend to make
me feel like an outsider. I have though recently regained my
courage and have gone back to the mosque. I think the
mosques in the US need to take even more strides to reach out
to the local community. But despite any isolation we as converts
may feel, or just feeling like we may not fit in with the majority
of those at the mosques, we must remember that the main
purpose of the mosque is to worship Allah (swt). We must only
be concerned with what He thinks, not other Muslims and also
not to worry what non-Muslims think.
I agree with the author that we must act as bridges between
born-Muslims and the rest of Americans. I believe the majority
of Americans are good-natured, warm people, as my family and
I are. I tend to be more positive about non-Muslim Americans
and believe that as Americans the majority of us are tolerant
people. Islam teaches us to be positive and optimistic. Let's not
forget that.
"You are also in the best position to reassess the vast tradition that has come down to us in the name of Islam. It is precisely because you have not been reared in a traditional Muslim culture and because you have been taught since your first day in school to search, question, critique, and analyze that you are the prime candidates to endeavor to separate religion from culture, to distinguish the essential to Islam from time and place bound interpretations."
In these words lies the demise and subjugation of Muslims by other Muslims. Just like the Ottomans over the Arabs. While I don't think this will come to pass by Westerners becoming Muslims and then feeling justified in whatever actions they might take in the Middle East, another group of individuals at some point in time might be.
Be careful what you wish for, you just might get it!
Surprise. So, it is the mosques which are now responsible for driving muslims out of Islam!!
The author also writes "Instead of seeing a path to spiritual growth, enlightenment and fulfillment many of these disengaged Muslims start to see a stagnant, retrogressive, patriarchal remnant of a lagging culture, mired in meaningless controversies and hollow, lifeless formalism.".
Does the author admit that Islam has retrogressed?
I thought self-criticism made a person's convictions (i.e., belief in one's religion) stronger; but the author seems to think otherwise.
The author also writes "Mass numbers of descendents of Muslims, converts, and spiritual seekers are forsaking the American Islamic community and many of these will inevitably abandon the religion.".
Wait a minute. I am told that Islam is the fastest growing religion in US. Which one is it? Growing or losing muslims to other religions? What is the truth?
Is it scare-mongering just to sell more books?
Surprisingly, he did not blame the Jews and evangelical christians for this.