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Lifestyle Advice for American Muslims
2025

Do I have to change my name?

My name is Ashab-ur-Rahman, a name given to me by my parents. Recently, I discovered that the word “Ashab” can mean “people” or “companions,” which makes the full name appear... more


Can I have an abortion under these circumstances?

Assalamu aleikum warahmatullah, Please forgive my abruptness but I urgently need advice on an extremely delicate and critical situation. I am married two years and have a 9 month old daughter,... more


Leaving my apartment without telling my landlord

Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, I hope this message finds you well. I am seeking your guidance on a difficult situation regarding my tenancy. I am an international student... more


Is running away from a school fight haram?

If someone hits you in school and you don't fight back, is it haram? more


Should I leave my husband?

We have been married for almost 24 years. Soon after we got married, my husband told me he was in debt. Before getting married, we used to talk, but... more


How can we be as brave as the Prophet?

The prophet (saw) was brave - how can we be brave too since we aren't prophets but rather normal human beings, especially when it comes to things like standing with... more