Can i make dua for love?

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   Salam alaikom, i have had feelings for this specific female for a while now and even though we were never an official couple or dated. we talked to eachother for a while and we get a long and trust eachother. the problem is that she has her heart set on somebody else she dated before and went back into a relationship with him. Me and her are still friends although we dont talk no where nearly as much as we used to. its been about a year now and i still have strong feelings for this girl . i even heard that she at once told a friend that she regretted going back to her ex and shouldve continued talking to me. that was a while back and as far as i know now they are still together. What i wanted to know is that is there any way i can make dua for her to have a change of heart towards me? i really believe i am in love with this girl and i can honestly see my self marrying her in the near future is Allah permits. I would like to get some religious advice on if i can pray for her to change her mind  as it seems impossible right now because we barely talk. she is Muslim also and i have great strong feelings that we would be a great husband and wife. i currently pray 5 times a day and make dua whenever i can hoping that something will change.

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shadih Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter. Male Joined: 08 November 2013 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 2	Post Options Post Reply Quote shadih Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: Can i make dua for love? Posted: 08 November 2013 at 11:08am
	Salam alaikom, i have had feelings for this specific female for a while now and even though we were never an official couple or dated. we talked to eachother for a while and we get a long and trust eachother. the problem is that she has her heart set on somebody else she dated before and went back into a relationship with him. Me and her are still friends although we dont talk no where nearly as much as we used to. its been about a year now and i still have strong feelings for this girl . i even heard that she at once told a friend that she regretted going back to her ex and shouldve continued talking to me. that was a while back and as far as i know now they are still together. What i wanted to know is that is there any way i can make dua for her to have a change of heart towards me? i really believe i am in love with this girl and i can honestly see my self marrying her in the near future is Allah permits. I would like to get some religious advice on if i can pray for her to change her mind as it seems impossible right now because we barely talk. she is Muslim also and i have great strong feelings that we would be a great husband and wife. i currently pray 5 times a day and make dua whenever i can hoping that something will change.

abuayisha Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Muslim Joined: 05 October 1999 Location: Los Angeles Status: Offline Points: 5105	Post Options Post Reply Quote abuayisha Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 09 November 2013 at 6:15pm
	"....feelings that we would be a great husband and wife." Don't you think her "ex" feels the same way? Ask Allah to grant you good in this life and the next, and save you from the fire. If you don't have her, and she is already with someone else, we ask Allah to give you better in return.

NABA Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Male Joined: 13 December 2012 Location: India Status: Offline Points: 867	Post Options Post Reply Quote NABA Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 09 November 2013 at 11:03pm
	Allah says in Quran in ch 2 v 216-u may like a thing that is not good for you u may dislike a thing that may b good for you, Allah only knows what is good for you.

smaziz Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter. Joined: 10 November 2013 Status: Offline Points: 8	Post Options Post Reply Quote smaziz Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 16 November 2013 at 7:48am
	As per my opinion, you can make DUA to Allah for anything that is good for everyone. So, in that sense, you can make DUA for love.

herber345 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Groupie Joined: 29 November 2013 Status: Offline Points: 44	Post Options Post Reply Quote herber345 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 06 December 2013 at 11:15pm
	yes, you can. As Smaziz said, we can Dua to God, for everything that I want and good for everyone And God full fill your every Dua if you have done with pure heart. Love is the best creation or feeling that gifted by God, you can surely Dua for you love.

NABA Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Male Joined: 13 December 2012 Location: India Status: Offline Points: 867	Post Options Post Reply Quote NABA Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 09 December 2013 at 10:32pm
	At herber345 I just want to clear doubt if suppose I loved a girl and I pray to Allah for my marriage with her,and suppose I married her but somehow she is not happy with me,and then she leaves me, I want to ask a question can we pray to have someone from Allah? Bcoz girl is not a thing its not a car or bike, a girl is the vital creation Allah says in ch 4 v 19 that don't tr8 women harshly, in ch 40 v 60-Allah says call to me I will hear u.we shud pray to Allah bcoz its a form of worship but to pray to Allah to g8 someone, I doubt yes but I always ask Allah to grant me a pious wife and children in future.

Haji mushtaqali Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter. Male Joined: 01 June 2018 Location: India Status: Offline Points: 1	Post Options Post Reply Quote Haji mushtaqali Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 01 June 2018 at 6:59am
	Aslam walekum How to make Dua for love

islamhelps Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter. Male Hindu Joined: 26 December 2022 Location: India Status: Offline Points: 2	Post Options Post Reply Quote islamhelps Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 26 December 2022 at 8:28am
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