I like other guys. What should I do?

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   Assalamu Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu. I am a male and I discovered years ago that I get aroused by other male's body parts. I have been trying to not think about it, evade sources of it, do fast, and have done activities the likes of physical activities or reciting the Quran to distract myself from it. However I get aroused when I saw those certain parts even though I tried to look away or distract myself with other thoughts. I do not like it one bit and I am very ashamed of myself every time I interact with other people because of this. I even had dreams about other men from time to time and found I have relieved myself upon waking up, and I felt extremely guilty every time. What should I do about this? Should I take medications or surgery to curb my sexual drive entirely? May Allah forgive me for my sins.

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Alec S Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter. Male Islam Joined: 18 October 2020 Location: Australia Status: Offline Points: 2	Post Options Post Reply Quote Alec S Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: I like other guys. What should I do? Posted: 18 October 2020 at 8:08pm
	Assalamu Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu. I am a male and I discovered years ago that I get aroused by other male's body parts. I have been trying to not think about it, evade sources of it, do fast, and have done activities the likes of physical activities or reciting the Quran to distract myself from it. However I get aroused when I saw those certain parts even though I tried to look away or distract myself with other thoughts. I do not like it one bit and I am very ashamed of myself every time I interact with other people because of this. I even had dreams about other men from time to time and found I have relieved myself upon waking up, and I felt extremely guilty every time. What should I do about this? Should I take medications or surgery to curb my sexual drive entirely? May Allah forgive me for my sins.

Dr. Aslam Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Admin Group Male Islam Joined: 24 February 2018 Location: California, USA Status: Offline Points: 279	Post Options Post Reply Quote Dr. Aslam Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 31 January 2021 at 9:25pm
	Salam Alaikum, I think it may be good idea to consult a sex therpist. Do not act on your imagination or ideas. Aslam
	Best Regards, Aslam Abdullah