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    Posted: 19 July 2006 at 8:47pm
Dear Brothers and sisters, I desperately need to know the punishment for dating a non muslim woman , and must I forget the feelings I have developed for this beautiful woman. I have tried to hold back under the circumstances, since I feel this cuold be a sin. Please recite the Quran and advise me of what the punishmensts would be if I continued to lust after this women. Thank you Brothers and Sisters
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Salem,

Go to her people. Ask for her Marriage, otherwise leave her alone.

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Show up at my place, and I'll whip you 60 times for dating this woman. 

In all seriousness.  If you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen.  If you believe that touching a woman you are not married to is haram, then you need to avoid the idea of dating altogether.

You should meet a Muslim woman in a public place and develop a relationship in that manner.  Which I can see from your second post, you are doing.




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Brother I am human I've have sinned and made many mistakes. This is one that came with great dismay and I did not act upon my thoughts, instead since I have not found a local Mosque I waned to get advice from my brothers and sisters whom I thought would help me in my dilemma. I'm sorry  you could judge me so harshly, which makes me think you are sinless.Have you ever heard of a qupted stating People in glass houses should not throw stones.
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Originally posted by El Sudan El Sudan wrote:

Brother I am human I've have sinned and made many mistakes. This is one that came with great dismay and I did not act upon my thoughts, instead since I have not found a local Mosque I waned to get advice from my brothers and sisters whom I thought would help me in my dilemma. I'm sorry  you could judge me so harshly, which makes me think you are sinless.Have you ever heard of a qupted stating People in glass houses should not throw stones.

Bismillah,

Brother Megatron was joking Brother El-Sudan!  And he meant with a wet noodle anyways.

His advice is good on this matter.  Only meet in public places.  (Cars aren't public.) 

In Shah Allah, Khayr.

Salaamu Alaykum

Al-Hamdulillah (From a Married Muslimah) La Howla Wa La Quwata Illa BiLLah - There is no Effort or Power except with Allah's Will.
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