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Aauzubillah, these days Gender Confusion is becoming increasingly rampant . . . and one must try to find the spiritual answer to it rather than following what the world tells us.

 

One must try to look for the good of things, and from this, the good I can see is that the sister involved has realized her mistake, and is trying to repent. Alhamdulilah.

 

The act she mentioned to you is Haraam, whichever angle of Islam one takes, regardless of the term used for it. It can be considered Zina, since Zina can be any kind of illegitimate sexual act. . . The Prophet even mentioned in a hadith, that when the eye sees something it is not supposed to see, it (the eye) has committed Zina.

 

Fortunately in Islam . . . there is open forgiveness for any sin - no matter how big, as long as a person is sincerely repentent and does not intend on commiting that sin again. Like Allah says so Himself, He is All-Forgiving. So as to what she should do, she should pray/supplicate to Allah and seek His forgiveness. . . She should pray to Allah to rid her of any sinful feelings, apart from those that are halal and jaaiz. Its as simple as that. Nothing complicated. She should also try and work at being a better muslim, and coming closer to Allah, since that prevents us from sinning in the future.

 

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She should also keep that incident to herself, and forget about it. When one commits a sin, it is best to keep the sin to oneself and not parade it in public or lament publicly about it. Allah says so in the Qur'an Himself, that if a person sins, and Allah keeps it hidden from others(from being revealed to others). . . the person should also best keep it to him/herself rather than disclose the sin, because that would be disclosing somthing that Allah hid for you. Unfortunatley despite som looking up, I couldnt find/recall the verse/ayah. Perhaps some other member here can chip in and quote it if they know.