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    Posted: 04 August 2009 at 4:44am
Assalaamu alaikum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuhu,

Patricia made some excellent points.

It sounds very complex. When trust is broken it will take a lot of work and effort to repair that lost trust.

 My duas for you and your friend.
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Originally posted by Nobody_Nobody Nobody_Nobody wrote:



Just wondering if you have caused so much pain to your hubby, to a point that you almost disgraced him, how would you win him back?

If he has lost his trust on you how would you assure him again that you can be trusted?
 
If he asks you what kind of life would you give me, what would you answer?
 
If he asks why should I keep you, what would you say?
 
This is for a sister who is in a confuse state... Let's keep her in our duas that her hubby will keep the marriage for she loves her husband so much... They are living in two different countries.


Well, if the situation is so much difficult, the first and most important thing to do is to meet again and solve the problem face to face. Both, husband and wife, they need to solve the problems they have and talk a lot, and decide if they want to go on with their marriage or stop, or if they want to live together or not, etc.

It's very difficult to keep on a distance relation, doesn't matter if it's already a marriage or not.

Nobody_Nobody, we don't have enough information, and the matter is too much complicated as to give a good advise.

I hope everything is going to be OK with her soon.

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Assalaamu alaikum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuhu.

Just wondering if you have caused so much pain to your hubby, to a point that you almost disgraced him, how would you win him back?
 
If he has lost his trust on you how would you assure him again that you can be trusted?
 
If he asks you what kind of life would you give me, what would you answer?
 
If he asks why should I keep you, what would you say?
 
This is for a sister who is in a confuse state... Let's keep her in our duas that her hubby will keep the marriage for she loves her husband so much... They are living in two different countries.
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