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Posted: 22 November 2009 at 7:33am

SALAM..AKhe Abdullah..I thank you for advice me
my circumstances are ordinary but I still havenot suaitable job and the women is moslim and very respectable the problem is if you be kind with girl then she think you admired her must marry her and she doesnot
care if you ready for marrage or not thereare many youth
whom prefer to lie and say Im going to marry you but
our profit tells us to not be lier so I want to wait till I be ready then I can be responsible about my promise and make the girl wastes her time.thnkyou

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Posted: 18 November 2009 at 11:20am

Salams Ali.Good job F.O.H May Allah Bless you .Is this women a Muslima?Will she revert?Do you want too marry her?What are your present circumstances?(Too young,no money,parents)We are to not go near fornication.Trust in Allah be patient and InshAllah if it is meant to be it will happen.May Allah Bless you

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Posted: 18 November 2009 at 9:13am

Asslamu Alaikum

Brother Ali,
I do not a lot about these problems. I hope others help you more than me.
I just wanted to say fear Allah and obey Him. If you Him, be so careful to please Him and be away from the sins, He, Subhanah, will bless you and reward you with things you may not imagine. He will make it easy for you to marry this girl if you love her and she is good for you. Or even with someone better than her. He will bless you with the happy life. Plus you will feel the sweet taste of Imaan , insha' Allah.

Edited by Full of Hopes - 18 November 2009 at 9:14am

And whoever seeks a religion other than Isl�m, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers(3:85)

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Posted: 17 November 2009 at 2:22pm

Hmmm im not no mufti, but you seem like a cool guy, May Allah bless you.

You know, i think you should chill, tell her if she wants to marry you she should wait, meanwhile that will give you time to finish education and know where your going in life, save up some money, get a bit of responsibility etc, then you can think of marrying her?

But anyway, if your dad/family got your back financailly, then you dont have to worry about that stuff i guess.

But if not, id say think about yourself and your family first, you seem a responsible guy, i think you would have already, considering you taken into account your circumstances.

Ya Allah, Bismillah, AllahuAkbar.

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Posted: 17 November 2009 at 6:21am

Im student of English language I have colleague she is
agirl but very kind with me and our relation restricted
by Islam.she want me to marry her but my present circumstances donot let me to committed or promise her
my question is could we be friend or it was forbiden
in Islam and how is best method I can deal with her
and its last year for us and we are be graduated and thank you for advice me.

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	SALAM..AKhe Abdullah..I thank you for advice me my circumstances are ordinary but I still havenot suaitable job and the women is moslim and very respectable the problem is if you be kind with girl then she think you admired her must marry her and she doesnot care if you ready for marrage or not thereare many youth whom prefer to lie and say Im going to marry you but our profit tells us to not be lier so I want to wait till I be ready then I can be responsible about my promise and make the girl wastes her time.thnkyou

Akhe Abdullah Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Male Joined: 19 November 2008 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 1252	Post Options Post Reply Quote Akhe Abdullah Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 18 November 2009 at 11:20am
	Salams Ali.Good job F.O.H May Allah Bless you .Is this women a Muslima?Will she revert?Do you want too marry her?What are your present circumstances?(Too young,no money,parents)We are to not go near fornication.Trust in Allah be patient and InshAllah if it is meant to be it will happen.May Allah Bless you Edited by Akhe Abdullah - 19 November 2009 at 10:10am

Full of Hopes Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Female Joined: 06 August 2009 Status: Offline Points: 855	Post Options Post Reply Quote Full of Hopes Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 18 November 2009 at 9:13am
	Asslamu Alaikum Brother Ali, I do not a lot about these problems. I hope others help you more than me. I just wanted to say fear Allah and obey Him. If you Him, be so careful to please Him and be away from the sins, He, Subhanah, will bless you and reward you with things you may not imagine. He will make it easy for you to marry this girl if you love her and she is good for you. Or even with someone better than her. He will bless you with the happy life. Plus you will feel the sweet taste of Imaan , insha' Allah. Edited by Full of Hopes - 18 November 2009 at 9:14am
	And whoever seeks a religion other than Isl�m, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers(3:85)

SteppeNomad Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 08 July 2009 Status: Offline Points: 292	Post Options Post Reply Quote SteppeNomad Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 17 November 2009 at 2:22pm
	Hmmm im not no mufti, but you seem like a cool guy, May Allah bless you. You know, i think you should chill, tell her if she wants to marry you she should wait, meanwhile that will give you time to finish education and know where your going in life, save up some money, get a bit of responsibility etc, then you can think of marrying her? But anyway, if your dad/family got your back financailly, then you dont have to worry about that stuff i guess. But if not, id say think about yourself and your family first, you seem a responsible guy, i think you would have already, considering you taken into account your circumstances.
	Ya Allah, Bismillah, AllahuAkbar.

Ali77 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Newbie Male Joined: 19 April 2009 Location: Sudan Status: Offline Points: 29	Post Options Post Reply Quote Ali77 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 17 November 2009 at 6:21am
	Im student of English language I have colleague she is agirl but very kind with me and our relation restricted by Islam.she want me to marry her but my present circumstances donot let me to committed or promise her my question is could we be friend or it was forbiden in Islam and how is best method I can deal with her and its last year for us and we are be graduated and thank you for advice me.