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Posted: 08 August 2005 at 7:39pm

salaamz people

ur right thats wat i meant ummziba ...and ya that helps...thanx alot and mockba thanx alot also that helps 2..i was so lost ..cause 1 of my friend's sister is like that so i was just wondering..but anything thanx u guys r the best

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Posted: 06 August 2005 at 9:10pm

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Assalamu'alaikum dear dister muslim_gal1988,

The nature of human being is such that he/she is the one who forgets... where Arabic insan originates from nisyaan (forgetfullness) and thus establishes one of its meanings as "the forgetful one".

We all often find ourselves making errors in forgetfullness but we should never stop from returning to Allah, The Knower of All Things and seeking His forgiveness and guidance. One must also admit his/her mistake committed in the state of forgetfullness and apologise to parents and treat them with respect.

And Allah knoweth best.

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Posted: 06 August 2005 at 11:10am

Assalamu alaikum muslim_gal1988,

I am not exactly sure what you are asking, but, I think you mean: if someone was born a little slow mentally, are they responsible for their actions, especially hurting parents?

First, respecting parents is certainly important in Islam, Allah, tells us this many times in the Qur'an. The most important thing in Islam is worshipping Allah (which includes following His commands, which includes respecting parents).

If one truly has no control over their responses, then Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful. If one uses their disability as an excuse to misbehave, then this would be something one would need to ask Allah's forgiveness for.

If parents are not understanding the problem with a child who says mean things but doesn't mean them, perhaps the parents need to talk to a professional who can help them understand the situation.

I don't know if this is helpful at all .

Peace, ummziba.

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Posted: 06 August 2005 at 6:28am

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Posted: 06 August 2005 at 5:04am

Salaam muslim_gal1988,

I would like to help you but really, I didn't understand what you are asking.

Could you be more specific.

Peace.

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Posted: 06 August 2005 at 4:18am

com'on people give me some thought about it

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Posted: 30 July 2005 at 12:12pm

I FIND THIS A LIL SAD!!

say if a person is born a little slow (they sometimes forget what there talking about..and they say something wrong,but after they realize that they had made a mistake, but they do it so much and after they cry because it happend again) .so if there born like that and disrespect there parents when there not thinking then how is it there fault that they were born that way?

BECAUSE IN ISLAM RESPECTING PARENTS IS THE MAIN THING

SALAAMZ

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	salaamz people ur right thats wat i meant ummziba ...and ya that helps...thanx alot and mockba thanx alot also that helps 2..i was so lost ..cause 1 of my friend's sister is like that so i was just wondering..but anything thanx u guys r the best SALAAMZ

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	Bismillah Assalamu'alaikum dear dister muslim_gal1988, The nature of human being is such that he/she is the one who forgets... where Arabic insan originates from nisyaan (forgetfullness) and thus establishes one of its meanings as "the forgetful one". We all often find ourselves making errors in forgetfullness but we should never stop from returning to Allah, The Knower of All Things and seeking His forgiveness and guidance. One must also admit his/her mistake committed in the state of forgetfullness and apologise to parents and treat them with respect. And Allah knoweth best.
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	Assalamu alaikum muslim_gal1988, I am not exactly sure what you are asking, but, I think you mean: if someone was born a little slow mentally, are they responsible for their actions, especially hurting parents? First, respecting parents is certainly important in Islam, Allah, tells us this many times in the Qur'an. The most important thing in Islam is worshipping Allah (which includes following His commands, which includes respecting parents). If one truly has no control over their responses, then Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful. If one uses their disability as an excuse to misbehave, then this would be something one would need to ask Allah's forgiveness for. If parents are not understanding the problem with a child who says mean things but doesn't mean them, perhaps the parents need to talk to a professional who can help them understand the situation. I don't know if this is helpful at all . Peace, ummziba.
	Sticks and stones may break my bones, but your words...they break my soul ~

Suleyman Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 10 March 2003 Location: Turkey Status: Offline Points: 3324	Post Options Post Reply Quote Suleyman Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 06 August 2005 at 6:28am
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Rose Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 07 July 2005 Location: Canada Status: Offline Points: 167	Post Options Post Reply Quote Rose Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 06 August 2005 at 5:04am
	Salaam muslim_gal1988, I would like to help you but really, I didn't understand what you are asking. Could you be more specific. Peace.
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muslim_gal1988 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Groupie Joined: 28 July 2005 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 72	Post Options Post Reply Quote muslim_gal1988 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 06 August 2005 at 4:18am
	com'on people give me some thought about it salaamz

muslim_gal1988 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Groupie Joined: 28 July 2005 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 72	Post Options Post Reply Quote muslim_gal1988 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 30 July 2005 at 12:12pm
	I FIND THIS A LIL SAD!! say if a person is born a little slow (they sometimes forget what there talking about..and they say something wrong,but after they realize that they had made a mistake, but they do it so much and after they cry because it happend again) .so if there born like that and disrespect there parents when there not thinking then how is it there fault that they were born that way? BECAUSE IN ISLAM RESPECTING PARENTS IS THE MAIN THING SALAAMZ