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    Posted: 22 March 2011 at 12:12pm

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The Prophet (saws) also provided protection against the inevitable acts of Shirk by teaching certain specific prayers which may be said anytime. Let's learn this dua and get protected. Also sis {hidden pearl} can look into the source of this hadith

Abu Moosaa said, "One day Allaah's messenger delivered a sermon saying 'O people, fear Shirk for it is more hidden than the creeping of an ant.' Those whom Allaah wished asked, 'And how do we avoid it when it is more hidden than the creeping of an ant, O Messenger of Allaah?'

He replied, 'Say: Allaahumma Innaa na'oodhu bika an nushrika bika shay'an na'lamuh, wa nastaghfiruka limaa laa na'lamuh (O Allaah, we seek refuge in you from knowingly committing shirk with you and we ask your forgiveness for what we do not know about).

Collected by Ahmad and at-Tabaraanee and is reported by Reported by Ibn Abee Haatim

There's an other dua { i learnt it from a book of al-huda} Allahumma tahir qalbi minnan nifaaqi, wa amali minar ri'aaye, walisani minal kazibi, wama tuqfis sudoor. Even in this dua we seek refuge from our deeds to be a show-off

Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: �All the descendants of Adam are sinners, and the best of sinners are those who repent."
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Jezakallahu kheiran for that, sister. But can you tell us what is the source of the hadith you mentioned about the black ant and the black moon? I am unable to locate it. Thank you.
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Originally posted by seekshidayath seekshidayath wrote:


" This is ar-riyaa. In another hadith the Prophet said it's so dangerous that it's like the black ant on the black rock in the night with no moon. It can sneak up on you like this.



That is such a eloquent and succinct way to describe riy'aa!!! Seriously, riyaa can creep up so silently.... why did we as human biengs have to be so concerned about our public image .... and hunger for praise Cry

Quite scary... because even if we have a bit of riya, our intention changes and all aur good deeds amount to ZERO. Confused.

"O Lord, forgive me, my parents and Muslims in the Hereafter. O Lord, show mercy on them as they showed mercy to me when I was young."
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JazakAllah Khair Seeks. Suhaib Webb is mashAllah really awesome isn't he? May Allah bless him... and protect us all from riya.
"O Lord, forgive me, my parents and Muslims in the Hereafter. O Lord, show mercy on them as they showed mercy to me when I was young."
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nice sharing
 
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How dangerous is riyaa, the minor shirk? If you read any of the du`a' that we recite every day after Fajr (predawn prayer) or `Asr (afternoon prayer) we say, "Oh my Lord, I seek refuge in You from associating partners with You knowingly and from associating partners with You unknowingly."

How subtle is riyaa? Maybe a sister goes to Egypt or Syria for three months to study. She buys a nice jilbab (dress), not the American not-really-quite-there jilbab. She buys the real jilbab. Then she comes back and goes to campus and now she wears jilbab and she thinks to herself proudly, "Oh yes, now I wear jilbab." Why is she wearing this jilbab? Did she wear this jilbab to please Allah (swt) or did she wear this jilbab so that people would say, "Oh you wear jilbab, you're a big sheikha!" This is very dangerous.

Maybe a brother got some knowledge and then he comes to the MSA and he starts preaching, "Well Ibn Malik said in the Al-Fiya..." and he reads some poetry that no one in the world can understand except him. Then you say to him, "Subhan'Allah, brother. We're talking about parking at jum`ah (Friday prayer), and you're reading the poetry of sarf (Arabic morphology)?" Why did the brother read this poetry? Why did he learn? Why is he increasing himself? This is ar-riyaa.

Many of us might be listening today and think, "Oh well I'm not even a good Muslim. I don't need to worry about riyaa. I'm doing bad, ain't no riyaa in doing bad." Check yourself before you wreck yourself. That's not the case because you can even have riyaa in doing bad.

You might be doing bad and think, "Yeah them brothers see how I've got it going on. They're going to think I'm all that." This is riyaa. In fact 99% of hip-hop music is riyaa. "Look at me, I'm the baddest dude on the block, I got more girls than stars in the sky, I can drink more than the Pacific Ocean. It's because of me that the world's in motion." This is riyaa! This is showing-off and exaggeration.

Those of us who feel safe from riyaa, listen to the following statements of one of the great scholars. He said, "The closest to people to falling into showing off are those who feel the most secure from it." Those people who think, "I don't have to worry about what he's talking about. I'm not an active Muslim." There is only one type of Muslim and that's an active Muslim. You move, you breathe, right? Your blood is moving in your body. You're active and you're a Muslim. Therefore you are an active Muslim.

We should note the types of riyaa so that we can protect ourselves from it.

Source: Suhaib Webb



Edited by seekshidayath - 04 March 2011 at 6:58am
Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: �All the descendants of Adam are sinners, and the best of sinners are those who repent."
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This is the disease of ar-riyaa: to be a show-off. People like me with big mouths who you guys invite to speak everywhere are the ones who have the biggest test of riyaa. It's very difficult.

Nobody can say, "I'm safe from riyaa." The one who says this is showing off. The Prophet Muhammed warned us about riyaa, but what is the meaning of ar-riyaa?

Imam al Ghazali said in his book Al Ihya that ar-riyaa is to seek stations (i.e. being high in people's minds and hearts) with actions so that they see you; to seek the praise of the people. There are some signs of the one who has riyaa that we will talk about , as well as their cures as found in Surat al-Fatiha (Qur'an, 1).

Riyaa is so dangerous that the Prophet gave it a special name. He said, "Indeed the thing I fear for you the most is the minor shirk (associating partners with Allah)." We have minor shirk and major shirk. Major shirk is something like worshipping a statue or another god with Allah (swt) or to take a legislator other than Allah (swt). But the minor shirk is mentioned in this hadith. And the Prophet said that it is the thing he fears for us the most.

 The Companions of the Prophet asked him, "What is minor shirk, ya Rasullah?" He said, "Ar-riyaa. Showing off." In one hadith the Prophet gave the example of someone making the athan (call to prayer) and while making the athan he thinks, "Wow I bet the people think my voice is beautiful." This is ar-riyaa. In another hadith the Prophet said it's so dangerous that it's like the black ant on the black rock in the night with no moon. It can sneak up on you like this.


Indeed riyaa is so difficult and dangerous that it can fall into your good actions. The Prophet Muhammed said, "The one who prays and wants people to see them has committed shirk. The one who fasted and they want the people to know about their fasting has committed shirk. The one who gave sadaqah (charity) and wants people to know about their charity has committed shirk." You know how dangerous shaytan is, especially when it comes to sadaqah?

 For example, maybe Islamic Relief or some charitable organization comes to your campus and they do a fundraiser. You're not even married and you say, "Subhan'Allah I really need this money but the Prophet said wealth does not decrease from giving charity. So I'm going to give and no one will know about it." So you give the money and then later you get married. Then ten years later you're sitting with your spouse at home and you say, "You know what I did ten years ago?" You just lost it. This is Shaytan. Don't think that Shaytan will just mess with you at that moment. We will talk about the attacks of Shaytan later in this series, insha'Allah. One word that Ibn Qayyim used to describe Shaytan is very scary. He said Shaytan is patient. He waits. Then, at a specific moment, he hits you. For ten years you got the hasanat (blessings) of this charity. But what counts is when you die. So after that ten years if you start boasting to someone, then you've lost it. You've got to start over. This attack is even more dangerous because if Shaytan hits you today with riyaa you still have ten years to make up for it. But if he waits ten years and then gets you then you lost ten years. Shaytan is an enemy to us.




Edited by seekshidayath - 04 March 2011 at 7:00am
Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: �All the descendants of Adam are sinners, and the best of sinners are those who repent."
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