Hijab,how does it feel?

Hello!

I am also a non-Muslim who has chosen to wear hijab for 1 month and report my findings for my school as a social experiment. My month of wearing hijab has been going on for several months now since I haven't worn it every day, and also because I just don't want to take it off when I do wear it!

I have always been fascinated with hijab. It's beautiful, modest and very very practical. Although my catholic husband does not approve of my wearing it for fear of discrimination (something he is subject to anyway as he is a foreigner) he really can't argue with the fact that I am covering myself up. Catholics believe in modesty too- in fact so does almost every religion.

I was just a little bit uncomfortable at first, wondering what people would think of me. I did face a few negative reactions, but there have been so many positive ones! In line at the supermarket, a Muslim woman spoke to me in her language. When I indicated that I didn't understand, we started conversing about my reason for trying the hijab. She was so supportive and ended the conversation with a "you go girl!" I've also had incredible support from the wonderful community on this board.

In short, wearing hijab feels wonderful. I don't feel the shame of incurring comments from men, something that I've suffered with internally for some time. Of course men must have control of themselves and their thoughts and are responsible for them, but knowing that I was just following the skimpy modern fashions made me feel responsible to a degree as well. That's just me though =)

I also feel like I am more confident and conscious of my actions. As I said, I am not Muslim, but I do not want to misrepresent the community by doing something inappropriate while in hijab. It's something I take very seriously.

I could go on and on. I just love it.

Lalli

Salaams Sister,

That is very difficult. And remember intentions are very important in Islam. A situation may prevent us from fulfilling a duty. And Allah knows your thoughts. 

For many reverts we do the changes "in pieces." Like having longer pants and long-sleeve shirts. Many Muslims wear pants and long-sleeves. Do it very casually and over time he may not notice. 

Why does a Muslim sister need to help you with a job? Are you a British citizen?  Can't you apply for jobs on your own? I am confused as to why you need a Muslim sister to do this for you?

Sadly many women are dependent financially upon men / or someone else, and thus they cannot always do what they would like or is best for themselves.

Keep praying to Allah and Allah knows your heart and intentions sister.

Hayfa


Edited by Hayfa - 27 August 2011 at 4:30pm

Jazakallah,

Bismillahir-RaHmanir-RaHeem. 

While considering the proper dress for a Muslima one should strictly follow the below points

1- It must cover the whole body. 
 
2- It must not be tight or transparent. 
 
3- It must not delineate the parts of the body, especially those parts that are sexually attractive. 
 
4- It must not be a dress that is usually worn by men.