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abuayisha 
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 Topic: Mother & Mother-in-lawPosted: 08 September 2011 at 2:09pm |
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Good point Ammi-Hayfa.....
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Hayfa
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Posted: 08 September 2011 at 9:37am |
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Hmm never heard of this.."mom" is not like you are a. changing who your mother is, denying who you mother is or any such. In fact calling your mother in law "mom or ami can be seen as a term of endearment/affection. You just cannot change a person's name or deny a relationship.
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abuayisha
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Posted: 08 September 2011 at 8:10am |
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Yeah I understood, but only sought to put forth a suggestion. Anyway, I think the wisdom behind the prohibition of calling someone by other than their father's name [Qur'an 33:5] is for keeping family ties. Therefore even a married woman should keep her father's family name, as well as those converts who enter Islam should not change their family name. I don't think in your case that you are attempting to represent yourself as your wife's mothers' son, but only referring to her by the nickname/kunya use by your wife. In some families you'll even find the wife referring to her husband as "dad" or "baba", and the reverse. And Allah knows best.
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Mujahidul Islam
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Posted: 08 September 2011 at 12:55am |
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I think my question is not clear to you. I want to know can i call mom/ma to my own mother-in-law. what does islam say about it. i heard that it is haram to call mom/ma to any women accept my own mom/ma.
Please tell me according to Quran and Hadith. |
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abuayisha
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Posted: 06 September 2011 at 12:28pm |
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How about calling her Umm______ and the first name of your husband?
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Mujahidul Islam
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Posted: 05 September 2011 at 1:17pm |
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I have a question that- Is it HARAM to say "Mother" to my own "Mother-in-law"
Please tell me according to Quaran and Hadith. |
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