Famly problems.

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   He needs some tough love and discipline. The parents should take away privileges like cellphones, internet, pocket money etc and EXPECT him to earn his privileges. If there are no negative consequences to his actions, he won't learn.

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Chrysalis Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 25 November 2007 Status: Offline Points: 2033	Post Options Post Reply Quote Chrysalis Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: Famly problems. Posted: 25 October 2012 at 9:05am
	He needs some tough love and discipline. The parents should take away privileges like cellphones, internet, pocket money etc and EXPECT him to earn his privileges. If there are no negative consequences to his actions, he won't learn.
	"O Lord, forgive me, my parents and Muslims in the Hereafter. O Lord, show mercy on them as they showed mercy to me when I was young."

Saffie Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter. Female Joined: 01 September 2012 Status: Offline Points: 1	Post Options Post Reply Quote Saffie Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 01 September 2012 at 3:02pm
	Aslamualaykum, I'm here because I don't know what else to do. My brother who is 15 now, doesn't listen to my parents. He always causes frustration and sadness in our family. He yells, forces people to do things his way and if we don't, he will take it out on my other brothers, who are younger than him. I see that my parents are at their wits ends because of all that. And because of his attitude, my other brothers are starting to act like him. Me and my mom have sat down with him so many times and confront him of his behavior, but it doesn't seem to work at all. He has caused my mother to cry many times and I feel helpless becasue I can't do anything about it. It feels like he doesn't care about hurting people as long as he is happy. We fight EVERYDAY with him. I wish we didn't have to. It's very saddening. I have prayed so many many times for him. He fights and 'blackmails and threatens' my other brothers if they don't do what he wants. I want him to see and acknowledge what he does wrong and do something positive about it. I know he isn't a bad person. But I want to know why he does all these things.