Masturbatin

Besides what is mentioned islamically of why you should not masterbate, you should google what will happen to you if you masterbate often. As a nurse, people come to me with all kinds of problems, and I had several people who complained about their husbands not..... because he masterbate too much before marriage.



Edited by lady - 16 August 2014 at 7:53pm

Keep busy with a a lot of activities so your energy will be absorb by the activity. There is a suggestion that to avoid doing that, don't go to your bedroom till you are very tired, or you have something important to do.

Try whatever work best for you, against masturbation is forbidden, majority people doing that doesn't make it it's permissible.

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Al-'Asr (The Time) 
 
103:1 (Y. Ali) By (the Token of) Time (through the ages),

103:2 (Y. Ali) Verily Man is in loss,

103:3 (Y. Ali) Except such as have Faith, and do righteous deeds, and (join together) in the mutual teaching of Truth, and of Patience and Constancy.
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The word "Except" will have implication as "minority",  for example "Population of African countries are black EXCEPT, some in South Africa".

So be ready you will be minority if you try to avoid the bad things, such as drinking alcohol, masturbation, extra marital dating etc.


Edited by semar - 03 August 2014 at 11:40pm

There is a Hadith of the Prophet (SalAllahu Alayhi Wa Sallam) in which he says that people are born with different levels of sexual desires (sex drive).

Sexual pleasure outside of marriage is forbidden.

The cure is to pray, fast and make du'a. Read the Qur'an every day and try to know what Allah Subhana Wa Ta'ala is saying to mankind. Read the Hadiths so that you get to know the religion better.

In Shaa Allah all this will be sorted if you try to have a pure heart and when you get married.