Shasta Aunty,
Please keep your holier-than-thou attitude and stop picking on me.
1. You are digging and searching for my faults that are not there and that is a sin in Islam.
2. You are scanadalizing me as you clearly out to defame me when you know full well I have neither said anything wrong nor abused anyone.
3. You haven't even greeted me as a new Muslim member or made me feel honoured or welcome in this forum, so that is another sin.
4. Even when the dispute is over, you are carrying on showing no respect that it has ended, which is another sin.
5. You haven't read or understood my posts or shown any tolerance towards me, but instead wasting my time by arguing against me.
4. This thread was not opened as an opportunity for you to start attacking me just to take out your frustrations out on me, becasue if you do continue to attack another Muslim, that is a sin.
5. This discussion is OVER. so Islamically you know where to go.
a) You are not Ronn and I was responding to Ron, before you attacked me.
b) Islamically my dispute ended with Ron so Isalmically, it is none of your business.
c) Defaming and being prejudiced when you do not know me and taking sides with non Muslims, while being totally unfair, highly critical for no reason, and wasting my time, is unislamic.
So (unless you are Ronn, or married to Ronn), I suggest you kindly remove yourself and mind your own business and stop misjudging me and joining your peers in attacking me all week, because otherwise you are sinning and creating a new fitna.
Unless you want to continue to promote your negative side online, don't return for more attacks on me because it is unislamic. I simply refuse to waste my time quarreling with fellow Muslims as not only is it antagonsing but I believe it is completely and utterly unislamic behaviour.
See the Quran:
Obey God and His Messenger and do not quarrel amongst yourselves lest you lose heart and your momentum disappear. And be steadfast. God is with the steadfast. (Surat al-Anfal: 46)
Believers, let not a group of you mock another. Perhaps they are better than you. Let not women mock each other; perhaps one is better than the other. Let not one of you find faults in another nor let anyone of you defame another. How terrible is the defamation after having true faith. Those who do not repent are certainly unjust (49:11).
'Abdullah b. Umar said that Rasulullah saw said : "The muslim is he from whose tongue and hand a Muslim is safe, and the muhajir he who gives up what Allah has prohibited for him ". ( Bukhari, Muslim )
Abu Hurairah said that Rasulullah saw said : "Beware of envy, for envy devours good (deeds) like fire devours firewood". ( Abu Dawud )
From Anas : Rasulullah saw said : "By Him in whose hand is my soul, a servant (of Allah) does not believe (truly) until he likes for his brother what he likes for himself ". ( Bukhari, Muslim )
From Anas : Rasulullah saw said : " Make thing easy, and do not make them difficult, and give good tidings and do not make people ay " run away ( Bukhari )
Abu Hurairah ra said that Rasulullah saw said :
"Beware of suspicion, for suspicion is the greatest falsehood. Do not try to find fault with each other, do not spy on one another, do not envy one another, do not be angry with one another, do not turn away from one another, and be servants of Allah, brothers to one another, as you have been enjoined. A Muslim is the brother of a muslim, he does him no wrong, nor does he let him down, nor does he despise him. Fear of God is here, fear of God is here, and he pointed to his chest. It is evil enough that a Muslim should look down on his brother. For every muslim is sacred to one another : his blood, his honour, and his property. Allah does not look at your bodies or your forms, or your deeds, but He looks at your hearts". (Bukhari, Muslim).
Edited by fareeda - 09 May 2008 at 10:59pm