Gender-Relations

SteppeNomad wrote:    I dont mind option 1a, but id definitely go with option 1b sitting with the sister and having some real brotherly, sisterly time, if she is not a sister then some nomad, hijabi/niqabi/ninja time.

 Asslamu Alaikum Just want to add my few cents.

thanks for this very interesting and rewarding post, sister Chrysails. Well, they have added and  the choices but it is really nice, mashallah.

   This word is nomad, hijabi/niqabi/ninja time. a disrespectful word for nigab that should  never be said by a Muslim!! May Allah guide us. 

  Respecting Nigab: http://www.islamicity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15970




 


Edited by Full of Hopes - 11 December 2009 at 7:42am

 Asslamu Alaikum

 First, respecting Nigab is the rule of Allah not this forum. Second, the link is not he rule, have a look at it then talk. Third, can not you change your way of GENERALIZATION???

 I see and Allah knows the best that you always generalize the bad things. If some people are bad you see the whole society is bad. At first I thought you hate some people, then I said maybe some societies, then I said some nations then I discovered that you are not satisfied with the whole world!! 

 Are you pleased with yourself, at least?? you should

 


Edited by Full of Hopes - 11 December 2009 at 9:56am

 And yeah I know those people who say bad things about Nigabi Mulsimahs and say they cover their bad deeds. These are the weak personality Muslims and the ignorant, too.
  They do not know about the Hijab of sahabah!! And that link I added was just some information about that. But some talk without knowledge and that is another story.

  And about Shaikh oil, I discovered something else about your posts. You should thank me for telling you this to be more careful., You also like mixing the sheets when you reply to some posts... You might not have the answer so you look for excuses like shaikh oils, or like saying I grant myself Janah or like some other replies. How sad focus on the topic please!!


Edited by Full of Hopes - 11 December 2009 at 10:07am

SteppeNomad wrote:   Ninja, here, is another way of saying Hijabi, or Niqabi, many Muslim WOMEN, themselves use it, now just for you knowlegde before you start twisting my words and I recommend you get in touch with the world.   And if ive said anything wrong, the sisters and brothers here will let me know, dont need you to teach me your lack of understanding. As for mixing the sheets, you seem the best at it.

Lets not get personal here. Chivalry is a virtue.

Full of Hopes is also a fellow sister/member here, she has just as much right to say something. She was simply voicing her disdain for using words such as "Ninja". It is not a term coined by us Muslims, rather it is usually used in a derogatory manner by non-muslims when referring to Niqabi Muslims. So really, it doesn't seem very humorous to be using a derogatory term for our own brethren which was meant as a disrespect to us in the first place. Some muslimahs may make light of it amongst themselves, but it sounds a bit disrespectful coming from a brother.