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iman
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Posted: 30 March 2005 at 4:25am |
salams to all. this thing is bothering me so much . we have a happy marriege & good reliation with each other. but my husband wants a 2nd wife.this is killing me. i dont know if i can take this. now some say its asap to me to except it or not. i red a lot but i havent come acrose with any hadith that talk about the woman wat can she do........? if you have send it to me. thanx. iman
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IslamicGirl
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Hey Sister Iman.. I'm sorry to hear about your situation. However, on this topic, all I know is that Ur husband cannot marry a 2nd wife unless you being his wife is not happy with this decision. In order to satisfy his wants, he needs to satisfy you first.. in other words.. he needs you to be in this 100% to do so, or as what I gather.. this is hurting your feelings ='s Haram (forbidden). I'm sure I have read about this in the section about marriage rules in the Qur'an. God forgive me if I have said it wrong.. but i'm sure it is in there somewhere. All the Best Sister Khuda Hafiz
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iman
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thanx, i wish is like you are saying but i need some avidences so i can convince him to. cose he does not think so.if you can find some daleel for me that will be helful. thanx again hering from u soon. iman
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ummziba
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Iman, I am also very sorry to hear about your situation. Is polygamy permited in the country in which you live? If not, your husband cannot break the law of his country of residence. You can go to www.islamonline.net and click on "Fatwa Bank" in the right hand column. Then type in "marrying a second wife" in the search bar. There are a few rulings there that may or may not help you. May Allah give you courage and patience to deal with this trial. Peace, ummziba. |
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iman
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salams ummziba, thanx for your msg. right now we are living in yemen, thats why my husband wants to do it more, cose here its a normal thing. but im from alabania i can exepted so easy as arabs, in albania no1 does poligamy. anyway the web u gave me its not opening. iman
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Suleyman
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Es_Selam'un Aleykumve Rahmetullahi ve Berakatuh Sister, Sister,i can understand your feelings,i have some high quality books about the issue,please take a look at them,wish you the best...islam's right will not be someone's(muslim's) unhappiness...something should be wrong inside of us,we should work on the Qur'an about the issue with all it's sides... Dr.Badawi :http://www.al-islamforall.org/litre/englitre/Polygainis.htm Purdah/Veil,Status of women in Islam:http://www.al-islamforall.org/Wmnfam/islr.asp
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Suleyman
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Es_Selam'un Aleykum ve Rahmetullahi ve Berakatuh, Subhan'Allah;half and hour ago i have read sister's message and thought about finding the name of this site which you have conducted us at the old forum and i did not remember,i was thinking on asking you the name of it then you came...so much Jazak Allah Khair brother Abuyaisha... Sister,please work on this site which is differently taking the issue than the others and trying to repairing the senses,giving the morals...don't miss that site... Edited by Suleyman |
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