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   salam,

thank you sisters so much for the truth, and for the support. i talked to my lawyer yesterday and she says that my next court date i might be able to get a permanent parenting order, and the kids can stay with me   this is a huge step for me, we have been going to court since may, and man those judges are so harsh, i really thought i would loose the kids, and so did he     but with the grace of allah, i might not have to worry about custody anymore  

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whoknow? Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Female Joined: 10 August 2011 Location: United Kingdom Status: Offline Points: 7	Post Options Post Reply Quote whoknow? Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 16 August 2011 at 9:34pm
	salam, thank you sisters so much for the truth, and for the support. i talked to my lawyer yesterday and she says that my next court date i might be able to get a permanent parenting order, and the kids can stay with me this is a huge step for me, we have been going to court since may, and man those judges are so harsh, i really thought i would loose the kids, and so did he but with the grace of allah, i might not have to worry about custody anymore

travel2hajj Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Joined: 17 August 2011 Status: Offline Points: 1	Post Options Post Reply Quote travel2hajj Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 17 August 2011 at 4:09am
	i think there's no question of going back to your husband..you cant say that now he will treat you in a better way.. Edited by travel2hajj - 17 August 2011 at 4:12am

Hayfa Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Female Joined: 07 June 2005 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 2368	Post Options Post Reply Quote Hayfa Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 18 August 2011 at 1:48am
	Salaam Sister, Please keep us posted! My Allah keep you and your children well. Hayfa
	When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy. Rumi

seeja Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Female Joined: 28 October 2010 Location: India Status: Offline Points: 111	Post Options Post Reply Quote seeja Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 31 October 2011 at 6:09am
	Salam Sisters I really have doubt about step-sibling marriage is forbidden or not. I thing children from different parents can be married as per the Islamic law Please confirm.
	Islam (Total Surrender, Submission, Obedience, Sincerity and Peace with Allah) is for all people, in all places and in all times

whoknow? Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Female Joined: 10 August 2011 Location: United Kingdom Status: Offline Points: 7	Post Options Post Reply Quote whoknow? Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 04 December 2011 at 8:36pm
	salamz everyone, we have resolved the custody, woohoo!! so, i get primary care(this isn't full custody) and he gets a lot of time with the kids. i have to say it is very frustrating but i am so happy that part is done and over, we just have a few more things to take care of then we are done. thank god!! there was a woman who asked if i could go back try again, i did an assessment when i went into the shelter, one of them was a danger assessment. the conclusion was that he would have eventually would have killed me. he was leading down that road. my abuse assessment was the abuse was ongoing and serious, it was getting worse as the years went by. i believe that speaks for itself.

Wardah Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Newbie Joined: 16 October 2011 Location: Canada Status: Offline Points: 19	Post Options Post Reply Quote Wardah Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 20 December 2011 at 8:26am
	Waslam sister You are right sister siblings from different parents mean both of them are different, these kind of siblings are na-mehram for each other and they can marry. Only the siblings from same parents and the sibling where mothers are same but fathers are different or fathers are same but mothers are different are mehram to each other and they can not marry withe each other. Here I give you an example when a woman with kids from her ex-husband marry to a man with kids from his ex=wife than, those children are ne-mahram for each other and they can marry, because they from tow different parents not the father niether the mother is same. So, it is better to not call them "siblings" cuz they are not "blood realtives" to each other in any way. Plus please read Al-Nissa from Quran it would help.

Hayfa Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Female Joined: 07 June 2005 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 2368	Post Options Post Reply Quote Hayfa Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 23 December 2011 at 8:22pm
	Salaams Sister, I am glad it seems to be resolving for you in a positive manner. My duas for you and your family. Hayfa
	When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy. Rumi

whoknow? Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Female Joined: 10 August 2011 Location: United Kingdom Status: Offline Points: 7	Post Options Post Reply Quote whoknow? Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 24 December 2011 at 10:02am
	really?? that means i can only marry a man who has no children. i have both a girl and boy, so it's not as if it would be easy to marry a man who only has a girl(s) or only a boy(s). or wait till they grow up and then be happy with a man. i'm not saying that i want to marry right this moment, but in the future it would be something i would like to do. thanx sister, despite a few arguments things have been fairly amicable.