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abuayisha 
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wa alaikum salaam Faisal/Abu Juveria! Allah bless your family with good in this life and the next. Welcome back.
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Posted: 22 July 2012 at 3:30pm |
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Salam alaikum and ramadan mubaraq
hope u remeber me,the one whose wife asked divorce. Like u now I also have a pretty daughter,I am abu juveria now. Regards Faisal |
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abuayisha
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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 2:34pm |
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Yeah, sadly, high mahr and wedding costs, are likely a reason for much fitnah in society. Wallahu Mustaan.
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W.S.
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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 10:50am |
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And that I find absurd. I read that the mahr in those cultures can be unreasonably high also, so that it's not uncommon to start saving up money as early as in your teens, and that some men work (abroad) for years just to save up more money, so that they can afford get married, basically.
And let's be thankful that it is so. I don't want to seem stingy, and of course one would want one's wedding to be nice and everything, but the cost if it all should be kept within the bounds of reality. At least in my case it'd have to.
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abuayisha
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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 7:41am |
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Well in some Muslim cultures the cost of the wedding alone makes marriage somewhat prohibitive. Other places if he has a paycheck-to-paycheck salary, but is making a living wage relative to her expectations then there shouldn't be a problem. I left what Muslim women are attracted to blank because it undoubtedly differs greatly.
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Posted: 20 July 2012 at 12:26am |
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I was actually being serious. You're saying it's a guy with a high salary they want?
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Posted: 19 July 2012 at 11:59am |
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Would you be so kind as to spell that out for me?
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