Urgent advice required, please.

DO NOT MARRY HER. She is not worthy for you so save her life and leave her alone so she could marry somebody who is worthy to be her husband.

You should stay celibate and single until your condition is cured.

Keep praying and repenting to Allah Subhana Wa Ta'ala for forgiveness and mercy.

Salaam

salaam, okay i do not know what the above two posts are talking about but HSV 1 or 2 has not cure. i'm a physician.

now let me tell you this, i also have herpes, it comes out as cold sores; i got this from my mom, who gets cold sores; ive not been sexually active nor my husband outside of marriage; is that clear? you do not get herpes only from sex!

so as for your past life, my opinion tell her. as for your herpes, you haven't been clear whether it's genital or just of the mouth; it seems of your mouth, & it seems you are so guilty of your past deeds you've made it into that your cold sores as an STD.

now you can get herpes as an STD, it's more assc with HSV 2, but HSV 1 & 2 can intermix with presentations. the STD herpes,you usually get is via genitalia. if you know your previous partner (had in the genital area) had it then yes you got it as an STD. if your previous partner had it on her mouth, it's not exactly an STD. but yes that means you got it from your illicit relationship. the other way you can get it on your mouth, i do not want to say this but for medical purposes, if she had it on her genitalia & you gave her oral sex.

now as for other ways of getting it besides sex; sipping/drinking from the same cup as a friend, parent, or anyone else who has it on their lip�.the way i got it from my mother

anyways, this is the medical point of view; i cannot give you an ethical point of view, i have no right to judge anyone; but at least medically if you are clear how you got it, then you are better informed on what you should do