Is my Nikah Valid?

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   Assalamoalaikum all borthers and sisters on this forum

Please help me in this regard. 

I performed a so-called-Nikah with a man XYZ while me, him and his friend (a male witness) were sitting in a car and another male witness was on speaker phone. Both these witnesses are his friends not mine and the one on speaker phone has never seen me nor do i know him. I had no representatives nor my guardian (father) knew about it or would have permitted it.
I said the words 'I take this man as my husband' and he said 'She is my wife. Was this Nikah valid?
Moreover XYZ has repeatedly said after this nikah that you are not my wife, i have nothing to do with you and you can go off and marry whoever you want but i wont say the word talaq cuz it means nothing and the nikah was also false since you never behaved like a wife. 
Please advise me. 
was it nikah in the first place? Am i divorced now?

Thankyou brothers and sisters for taking out the time to read this. Plese help me.

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UTKH Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Female Joined: 28 December 2011 Location: Pakistan Status: Offline Points: 1	Post Options Post Reply Quote UTKH Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: Is my Nikah Valid? Posted: 28 December 2011 at 12:21am
	Assalamoalaikum all borthers and sisters on this forum Please help me in this regard. I performed a so-called-Nikah with a man XYZ while me, him and his friend (a male witness) were sitting in a car and another male witness was on speaker phone. Both these witnesses are his friends not mine and the one on speaker phone has never seen me nor do i know him. I had no representatives nor my guardian (father) knew about it or would have permitted it. I said the words 'I take this man as my husband' and he said 'She is my wife. Was this Nikah valid? Moreover XYZ has repeatedly said after this nikah that you are not my wife, i have nothing to do with you and you can go off and marry whoever you want but i wont say the word talaq cuz it means nothing and the nikah was also false since you never behaved like a wife. Please advise me. was it nikah in the first place? Am i divorced now? Thankyou brothers and sisters for taking out the time to read this. Plese help me.

Hayfa Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Female Joined: 07 June 2005 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 2368	Post Options Post Reply Quote Hayfa Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 07 January 2012 at 7:25pm
	Salaams Sister, You need to ask a scholar this, giving him all the details. Though I do believe that without a Wali there are only a few exceptions when a marriage is valid- can be for divorced women etc. Some others may have good links for you dear sister.. My duas for you.. Hayfa
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abuayisha Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Muslim Joined: 05 October 1999 Location: Los Angeles Status: Offline Points: 5105	Post Options Post Reply Quote abuayisha Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 07 January 2012 at 10:00pm
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abuali Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Newbie Joined: 05 May 2014 Status: Offline Points: 12	Post Options Post Reply Quote abuali Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 05 May 2014 at 1:56am
	Assalam Alikum sister according two my knowledge, two witnesses are required from both side and all of them need to sign in the document of Nikah, Nikah mean announcement but if there were not enough people which are required so i don't think so that you were married with that man but i should recommend you to ask with Islamic scholar.