marital relations in RAMADHAN

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   Salaam all,,
I've a small questions for everyone
What besides sexual intercourse and related to sex is permitted when fasting?
I mean kissing, caress, pinching wife breast, and bottom

Thanks

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Faizal Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Joined: 05 October 2005 Location: Mauritius Status: Offline Points: 3	Post Options Post Reply Quote Faizal Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: marital relations in RAMADHAN Posted: 05 October 2005 at 9:10pm
	Salaam all,, I've a small questions for everyone What besides sexual intercourse and related to sex is permitted when fasting? I mean kissing, caress, pinching wife breast, and bottom Thanks

Israfil Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 08 September 2003 Status: Offline Points: 3984	Post Options Post Reply Quote Israfil Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 05 October 2005 at 11:46pm
	LOL that is kinda personal bro perhaps you might wanna consult your local Imam..But nontheless a genuine question

Sajid2003 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Newbie Joined: 19 September 2005 Location: Sudan Status: Offline Points: 10	Post Options Post Reply Quote Sajid2003 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 06 October 2005 at 1:08am
	Assalamu Alaykum, May Allah " SWT" accept us and our fasting and bless us, Intercoures is not allowed and resetrictedly prohibited in the day time of Ramadan, if a person does that, he/she is to keep fasting(lator on after Ramadan finishes) for 2 successive months. as a penalty "Kaffara". For other things you 've asked about" kissing,pinching............etc" if you are sure and guarantee that you won't be carried away for a complete interscourse or EJACULATION - also spoils fasting- then no harm, our prophet Mohammad used to kiss his wife Ayesha while fasting, but it's advisable not to do such things in the day time. Edited by Sajid2003

Knowledge01 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 19 March 2005 Status: Offline Points: 457	Post Options Post Reply Quote Knowledge01 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 06 October 2005 at 10:03am
	The Prophet Muhammad (salallahu alaihi wa salam) had much more self control and was much more humble than most of us, so it was easier for him to kiss his wife without being tempted to have intercourse with her. So kissing and everything except intercourse is permitted but not encouraged.

unity1 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 20 March 2005 Location: Pakistan Status: Offline Points: 116	Post Options Post Reply Quote unity1 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 06 October 2005 at 12:18pm
	Asalam Aalaikum, I understand the opinions given by different members of this forum on this matter, but I didnot understand what Sajid means by saying that it is advisable not to do such things in day time. We know that sexual intercourses takes place during night time and their could possibly be many reasons for that. But I didnot understand why such emphasis is given on day time.
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Community Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Guest Group Joined: 19 May 2005 Status: Offline Points: 1135	Post Options Post Reply Quote Community Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 06 October 2005 at 12:40pm
	It's clear, no sex during the day while fasting....but during the night you have the green light. What you should do or not during the day with your wife depends on you really, if sitting in the same room as her gives a chance of you losing it (LOL) then you should avoid that too. But otherwise you can kiss her and caress her if you are not a man who loses control of himself in this matter , i mean come on MEN, if fasting is something that is in "danger" by your wanting to have sex with your wife "right now" during the day, while you can have sex with her at night, and you actually can not resist having sex with your wife and you need to avoid kissing her or staying in the same room as her (lol) then you got some problem there in my view...but thats just my view i guess.

Faizal Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Joined: 05 October 2005 Location: Mauritius Status: Offline Points: 3	Post Options Post Reply Quote Faizal Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 06 October 2005 at 8:47pm
	Thanks for replying me... but some take the wrong meaning of my questions.... Of course we must restrict ourselves from sexual intercouse...that is what is called fasting.... only i want to knw besides sexual intercourse what is permitted during fasting...some of u said kissing because our prophet also kissed his wife but depends what type of kissing.. kissing on lips or kissing on cheeks...