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   Assalamu alaikum,
Keep your first wife and be patient.  Start fasting twice weekly to help with your fantasizing. Do good which will draw you closer to Allah. Being kind to your wife and not tormenting her with conversations about another woman is an excellent start at being a better person.  Discuss what you have posted here with her father, perhaps he can offer you additional suggestions.  

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abuayisha Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Muslim Joined: 05 October 1999 Location: Los Angeles Status: Offline Points: 5105	Post Options Post Reply Quote abuayisha Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: second marriage Posted: 27 September 2022 at 8:22am
	Assalamu alaikum, Keep your first wife and be patient. Start fasting twice weekly to help with your fantasizing. Do good which will draw you closer to Allah. Being kind to your wife and not tormenting her with conversations about another woman is an excellent start at being a better person. Discuss what you have posted here with her father, perhaps he can offer you additional suggestions.

icforumadmin Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Admin Group Joined: 15 February 2005 Status: Offline Points: 1056	Post Options Post Reply Quote icforumadmin Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 26 September 2022 at 12:05pm
	In that case don't marry of the second time. You will not happiness that you you will get. Second you heat your first wife feeling, hearting sombody feeling is not the teaching of the prophet.

afrunur Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter. islam Joined: 02 August 2022 Location: bangladesh Status: Offline Points: 2	Post Options Post Reply Quote afrunur Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 02 August 2022 at 8:54am
	If a man wants to marry a second time only because he feels like he wants to marry a second woman for his fantasies or maybe because he like her. But his first wife is not happy with it anyhow and cries a lot and also asks him to not marry again !! In such a situation who is right ?? In Islam, a man can marry 4 times we know but if he only wants to marry a second time because he like someone while his first wife is devasted with that grief, is he allowed to do that? another question is "if in this situation his first wife wants to divorce him is it going to be a bad decision? what does Islam say?