Another Random Question

Okay, it was explained to me that to adopt a child islamically, you cannot change the name of the child because it takes the child's father's name from them.

Okay, then, isn't it wrong for reverts to change their name when they get married, denying their father's name in doing so?

I mean, the name of your father is in the West your surname, there is no Ibn Russell, its simply Daley.  (in the case of my husband)

So why the rush to deny your true name when you revert? 

Hi Angela

The above post explains the position of reverts � male or female.

Muslim women (born or reverts) do not take their husband's names after marriage. Because the laws in some countries insist on the wife taking the husband's name, Muslimah in these countries will take their husband's surname, respecting the laws of their country. From an Islamic point of view a women retains her maid name from birth to death. She is always known as �..daughter of �..

Hi Angela

I don't know why u feel Angela nor Candy will not be accepted.

In Arabic Malaeekah is the female for angel and this name is used very commonly.

I don't see any problem with candy also, candy means sweets or chocolates right.

Mainly I think reverts just feel that they should change their names-a personal choice to make a complete change from their past life to their present one.

Actually, the reason I thought Angela would not be accepted was that, certain names aren't allowed.  Such as names of angels and such....hmm, there was a list of baby names I found on another site that I read, with it was this article.

Praise be to Allah,

It is forbidden to use any name that describes or belongs to only Allah, such as al-Khaaliq (the creator) and al-Quddoos (the most holy), or names which do not befit any except Allah.  Such as Malik al-Mulook (king of kings).  This is the consensus of the fuqaha.

Ibn al-Quyyim said that names which belong only to Allah include:  al-Ahad (the one), al-Samad (the eternal), al-Khaaliq (the creator), al-Razzaaq (the provider), al-jabbaar (the compeller), al-Mutakabbir (the majestic), al-Awwal (the first), al-Aakhir (the last), al-Baatin (the hidden), and Allaam al-Ghuyoob (the knower of the unseen).

The evidence that it is forbidden to call anyone by a name which belongs to Allah and Allah only, may be seen for example in the hadeeth narrated by al-Bukhaari and Muslim from abu-Harayrah (May Allah be pleased with him); in the version narrated by al-Bukaari, he said "The messanger of Allah (P.B.U.H) said:'The most despised name with Allah on the day of resurection will be a man called Malik al-Mulook,'"  According to Muslim, he said, "The man most deserving of Allah's anger and most evil on the day of resurrection will be a man who was called Malik al-Amlaak.  There is no King but Allah."

As regards using names that may be used of  Allah or of others, it is permissible to use the following names: Ali (high), Rasheed (guide) and Badee' (innovator or originator)

Ibn 'Aabideen said: "It seeds to be the case that they are permitted, even if the definite article 'al' is used."  Al-Hasafi said: "What (These names) mean concerning us (humans) is different from their meanings concerning Allah, may he be exhalted."

It is forbidden to use any name which befit no one except the Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H).  Such as Sayyid Walad Adam ( master of the sons of Adam), Sayyid al-nass (master of mankind), Sayyid al-Kull (master of all).  Only because these names, as the Hanbalis said, befit no one except him.

It is forbidden to use any name which implies enslavement to anything other than Allah (S.W.T).  Such as 'Abd al-'Uzza (slave of al-'uzza-pagan goddess), Abd al-Ka'bah (slave of the Ka'bah), 'Abd al-Daar ( slave of the house), 'Abd 'Ali (slave of Ali), 'Abd al-husayn (slave of husayn) ect.

It is forbidden to use names of Idols instead of Allah.

It is forbidden to use the names of devils (shayaateen), such as Khanzab, al-A'war and al-Ajda'.  It was reported that the sunnah is to change names such as these.

It is MAKROOH (hated or disliked) to use names that have bad or distasteful meanings, or which sound odd, which would cause others to mock the person or would cause him embarrassment, in addition to being contrary to the guidence of the Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H), who taught us to choose good names.

It is makrooh to use names whose meanings are to soft and to provocative or sexy.  This is a wide spread problem when it comes to naming girls.

It is makrooh to deliberately name someone after promiscuous actors and singers who star in worthless entertainment shows.

It is makrooh to use names that convey any sense of sin and disobedience to Allah.

It is makrooh to use foreign names that belong only to the Kuffar.

It is makrooh to use names of Pharaohs or other tyrants.

it is makrooh to use names that have any undesirable meaning.

It is makrooh to use names after animals that are known for their bad qulities.

It is makrooh to use any name which is composed of any word added to such words as al-Deen or Islam.  only because it gives an incorrect impression which should not be given.

     Names of this sort may be forbidden for 2 reasons.  In a name such as Shihaab al-Deen, for example, the word Shihaab means a flame, which as we all know comes from fire.  Then this is added to the word al-Deen (Deen means the religion), which is in appropriate.  This can lead to the use of strange names, as in Indonesia, where people use names such as Dhahab al-Deen (gold of the religion) and Maas al-Deen ( diamond of the religion)!

It is mahkrooh to use names that are composes of 2 parts, and this includes names which include Allah (swt), with the exception of the name Abd-Allah (slave of Allah).  Which is one of the most beloved names to Allah.  Name which include the word Al-rasool (the messanger) are also mahkrooh.

Some scholars regarded using the names of angels (peace be upon them) as mahkrooh.  Giving angels' names to women is clearly haraam, since it implies imitation of the mushrikeen, who thought that the angels were the daughters of Allah (swt).  Exhalted be he above what they say!

Some of the scholars thought that it was mahkrooh to give people the names of Soorahs of the Qur'an such as Ta-ha, Yaa-seen, Ha-Meem.  (The popular notion that Ya-Seen and Ta-ha are names of the Prophet ((P.B.U.H)) is not correct).