ridiculous topics and advice

This is advice from the website Sunni path. It is so weird and silly, I wonder what they are thinking?? It is from an article , THE GOLDEN RULES FOR RAISING CHILDREN_

The child should be told not to sleep during the day because it creates laziness but he/she should not be stopped from sleeping at night. However, the child should still be stopped from sleeping on a soft bed so that the child�s bodily organs will get strong and the body will not get disfigured, due to which the child will not be able to live without comforts. Instead, the habits of sleeping on hard beds, wearing non-fine (simple) clothes, eating simple food should be instilled in the child. The child should be stopped from doing things in a clandestine way because he/she knows that it�s bad, that�s why the child hides it. If it�s ignored, then the child will develop the habit of doing bad things.

Similarly, the habit of walking during the day and exercising should be instilled in the child so that he/she does not become lethargic and lazy. However, utmost care must be taken to ensure that the child does not expose his/her head, knees, thighs, etc. Furthermore, the child should not walk too fast nor should keep his/her hands loose [which is a sign of laziness] but instead, the child should keep his/her hands close to the body and should be active.

Another good one, ladies  I hope you don't fly alone or drive more that 48 miles to visit your parents!!!!

Answered by Shaykh Faraz Rabbani

Is it permissible for a woman to travel alone to visit her parents (with her husband's permission) when the parents live beyond 48 miles from her residence?

In the name of Allah, Most Compassionate, Most Merciful,

The majority position is that it is not permitted for women to travel alone beyond city limits for more than 48 miles, because of the outward purport of many hadiths of the Beloved Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) that no woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day should do so.

However, as the answers below detail, there is some leeway in this according to established positions within Sunni scholarship, when there is obvious need or recognized benefit that cannot be reasonably fulfilled otherwise.

And Allah alone gives success.

Wassalam,

Faraz Rabbani

 

As-Salamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

That reminds me on the hadith of leaving your husband if he doesnt convert after you convert. That is  a choice for the individual, and is between a woman and Allah alone. Sometimes the men should just stay out of it unless the sister is threatened! Masha'allah for the female Ummah!