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Points: 3057 		Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 May 2006 at 7:45am

Assalamu Alaikum!

Whenever you say what brother rami or anyone said so and so, post the link please.

When you mock at "scholars" or "most of the scholars", it is scholar bashing. Pointing this out is not being disrespectful as guidelines are for everyone including myself. When you mock at scholars, you are involved in Islam bashing, Muslim bashing and scholar bashing.

Sister herjihad, when you say, She would NEVER Islam bash!

I appreciate that you support Muslim sister. She may not intentionally do that, but many times we unwilling or unintentionally do things that turns out be what someone never thought of. When you do scholar bashing here, to me it is Islam bashing. Disagreeing with one or more of them is totally another thing.

Moreover, I wouldn't even spare myself if I make that mistake because rules are for everyone including myself.

I don't want to argue or debate on this matter, therefore, I hope you get what I am talking about.

Sister herjihad, you have been disrespectful to me by falsely charging me that I am being disrespectful to sister Jenni.

My conversation with her ended in a very nice way, why did you get in between after that?? Isn't that disrespectful?

Is this the way Muslim Ummah should interact?

Let us all  follow forum guidelines.

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Points: 2368 		Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 May 2006 at 11:15am

Furthermore, the child should not walk too fast nor should keep his/her hands loose [which is a sign of laziness] but instead, the child should keep his/her hands close to the body and should be active.

how in the world does this work? Should you tie their arms to their body?? And at what ages are they talking about? Kids need to be kids. hands loose?? What is that?? Not make a fist? Where does this come from? 

Today the world is moving in such a pace that there is a tremendous increase of crime in every country in the world, both east and west, both Muslim and Non-Muslim. No country is spared these terrible vices and the victims are 99.9% women.

I have to respectfully disagree.  99.9 is not accurate.

I have to say I am very wary about reading things on the internet and knowing who is a �scholar� and who is not. And any good web site gives hadiths and often a good place will offer if there are differences (as there are in some cases).  Anyone can claim anything.

Sometimes when we write we don�t realize how our tone can come across or how it is being interpreted.      
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Points: 227 		Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 May 2006 at 6:56pm
Sister Amah,

   When you read my post about women traveling I didnot say that I was not trying to prove that I was independent. And I would never put my husband above our Prophet(SWAT)in obediance. In my post above I did write this about traveling "the Prophet would give advice under the circumstance of some peoples condition." I did not say to go beyond his demands. Please donot put words in my mouth. No one knows one's condtion in life. Yes, we are dependent on some things from our husband. But life cannot always allow us to live that way.

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Points: 1334 		Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 May 2006 at 10:09pm
Sister Danty, i am not putting words in your mouth, when i say "we", i mean in general, i am not doubting you one bit or accusing you of anything.

You said yourself that you travelled with your husbands permission and if he would not allow , you will not travel. If you think you did not disobey the prophet in this matter, thats your opinion. Allah knows best.

I know circumstances for some women are so bad, they have no man to take care of them and they have to do evreything on their own. And always necessity overrules prohibitions.

I am sure you are trying your best too, to follow the right path. i am sorry if you misunderstood me.
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Points: 980 		Direct Link To This Post Posted: 02 May 2006 at 3:51am

Originally posted by Jenni Jenni wrote:

Alwardah, anyone with any opinion and a mail order degree can say they are a scholar. I don't have to just respect and revere any persons opinion no matter how silly!!!! There is so much useless advice from Islamic Websites when people really just need to use thier common sence, read the Quran ect.!! Tell my why again, that you have a brain???

As Salamu Alaikum

No Sis I don�t have any brains, Allah gave ALL to You.

More seriously, this was good advice (Nasihah) from one Muslimah to another.

I saw a sister in deen taking something from one website and mocking it in another. Disagreeing is one thing, mocking is something else. Allah knows best.

Wa Alaikum Salam

 
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Points: 980 		Direct Link To This Post Posted: 02 May 2006 at 3:58am
Originally posted by amah amah wrote:

Originally posted by Alwardah Alwardah wrote:

I agree that Hadith may not apply today.




Kindly explain this, i hope i am not misinterpreting you.

Do you mean  hadith gets outdated??


As Salamu Alaikum

Audho Billahe minash Shaitanir-Rajim! Astaghfirullah! I did not mean that the Hadith as a Hadith does not apply today Astaghfirullah! How can I when I know it is Authentic and recorded in both Al-Bukhari and Muslim.

Let�s look at the wisdom behind this Hadith. Did the Prophet (Sallallahu Alayhi wa Sallam) make such a statement because he did not trust women? NO� the message of this Hadith is protection of women.

This Hadith is valid today as it was 1400 years ago.

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Another good one, ladies  I hope you don't fly alone or drive more that 48 miles to visit your parents!!!!

If we look at this Hadith only in terms and time and distance according to our generation then let�s look at the reason behind this Hadith and that is protection of women and apply this Hadith to our societies with the increase in crime, then women should not step outside their homes without a male escort. Here the sister is making a joke of traveling 48 miles today without a Mahram, I was pointing out to her she should not step outside her home without a Mahram.

Insha Allah I pray the explanation is clearer this time.

O Allah forgive us our shortcomings. Ameen!

Wa Alaikum Salam

 
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Points: 1334 		Direct Link To This Post Posted: 02 May 2006 at 4:15am
Originally posted by Alwardah Alwardah wrote:

This Hadith is valid today as it was 1400 years ago.



I am glad you said that. Jazakallahukhairan for your explanation sister Alwardah.
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Points: 705 		Direct Link To This Post Posted: 02 May 2006 at 8:14am
alwardah, I should not step out of my home without a Maharam, are you joking??? Don' you think 48 miles was because women had to cover it on foot and it took days? Many women today commute in my area more than 48 miles to work. What you are saying sounds just like the Taliban in Afghanistan. The women there could not leave the home without a Maharam and they SUFFERED GREATLY because of it. I totally disagree with you!
You cant be a good muslim if you are not decent and have a cold heart. Be a decent and kind person and care for women and children and the elderly.
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