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I interpret the New Testament to mean this:

Yes, the husband is supposed to be the head of the household, PROVIDED he is a Godly, righteous man.  I know there is a scripture relating to this, but I've gone braindead....I'll find it soon.  So IF the husband is a righteous man who is living according to God's will, then the wife should listen and learn from him.  We are all also instructed many times by God to be faithful to Him, to honor, worship, and pray to him....ALL OF US, MEN AND WOMEN. 

The man is also told repeatedly to love, honor, and respect his wife, just as she is to do the same for him.  It is a great plan which God made provided it is followed by both the husband and wife.  It is a sort of "mutual admiration society", with the husband as the one who is to set the Godly example for all in the family to follow. 

If the husband is a low-life rat (we've all known them, haven't we), then of course God does not expect us to be submissive to them.  If they beat the children, run around with prostitutes, get drunk, etc., God certainly does not expect the wife to follow that sorry example.

Anyway, I truly believe God gave us a brain to use, and also common sense which tells us when something is "not quite right" in regards to marriage.  (I'll be back when I find the verses I'm looking for.)

God's Peace.

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Hayfa Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 05 June 2006 at 10:57am

There was a great show on PBS about putting people back in time, living as they did in previous eras. They had one about returning to Puritan Colonial living here in early US history. Women truly had in miserable. They were not allowed to speak in public, argue with their husbands, they wore hot, thick clothes all over. Made me glad to not live then.

Patty, I can see what you are saying. But there can be no denying that women were always treated as 2nd class citizens in Christianity. You can go up through the Middle Ages, to lack of birth control, etc. Heck, a woman raped was ordered to marry the rapist! These of course are man-made laws. But if Jesus was there to liberate people, how in the world were women suppressed more?  We can take for instance the witch hunts, which were nothng more then getting rid of women who had power. They were the teachers and the healers who had great influence in their communities.  They burned at the stake and drowned many women labeled as 'witches.'

You can say how you want to interpret the New Testement, that is not how it was interpreted by the Church officials. And no one can deny that the rights of women are clearly listed in the Quran. Whatever the message that Jesus was sent to give has been changed and damaged by humans.

 

 

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Originally posted by Hayfa Hayfa wrote:

You can say how you want to interpret the New Testement, that is not how it was interpreted by the Church officials. And no one can deny that the rights of women are clearly listed in the Quran. Whatever the message that Jesus was sent to give has been changed and damaged by humans.

Hayfa,

Yes, truly, the Quran did alot to liberate woman.  But, just like anything men will ignore what they need to in order to get what they want.  Power.  Look at the Taliban and those in Africa who use the Quran as an excuse to abuse their women.  Forcing them to stay in their homes or worse to mutilate them.  The problem is not with the scripture is those that would use the scripture and twist it for their own gain.  That has always been the problem.  God would never advocate the subjucation of his beloved daughters.  But, Men (I mean this as a general term for MANKIND) are not perfect and are often corrupted by their own greed and lust for power.  You look at the Puritan clothing with distain, the same I look at the burka with the same distain.  I could not live my life through Casper the Friendly Ghost's wardrobe.

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�� When Omar had driven the Jews out of Chaibar and the Christians out of Najaran, he gave instructions to his generals against the Jews and Christians.  These orders were called �the covenant of Omar,� and contained many restrictions against the �people of the Book� (Jews and Christians) � In spite of this fact, the Jews felt themselves freer under the new rule of Islam than they did in the Christian lands.  The restrictive laws of Omar were not carried out even during Omar�s lifetime, and though the fanatic [Muslims] scorned the Jews for their religion, they did not despise them as citizens, but showed great honor to worthy Jews.  The first [Muslims] treated the Jews as their equals; they respected them as friends and allies, and took an interest in them even as enemies.  The Asiatic and Egyptian Jews consequently treated the [Muslims] as their liberators from the yoke of the Christians � [bold emphasis added]�

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Ref:  Graetz, Heinrich, �History of the Jews,� Volume III, New York, George Dobsevage, 1927, pp. 87-88



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Thank you Serv....
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Originally posted by Servetus Servetus wrote:

�� When Omar had driven the Jews out of Chaibar and the Christians out of Najaran, he gave instructions to his generals against the Jews and Christians.  These orders were called �the covenant of Omar,� and contained many restrictions against the �people of the Book� (Jews and Christians) � In spite of this fact, the Jews felt themselves freer under the new rule of Islam than they did in the Christian lands.  The restrictive laws of Omar were not carried out even during Omar�s lifetime, and though the fanatic [Muslims] scorned the Jews for their religion, they did not despise them as citizens, but showed great honor to worthy Jews.  The first [Muslims] treated the Jews as their equals; they respected them as friends and allies, and took an interest in them even as enemies.  The Asiatic and Egyptian Jews consequently treated the [Muslims] as their liberators from the yoke of the Christians � [bold emphasis added]�

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Ref:  Graetz, Heinrich, �History of the Jews,� Volume III, New York, George Dobsevage, 1927, pp. 87-88

Very good one dear Servetus,please smile and know that it still goes,here in my city,while we are on Ramadan we invite Christians and Jews to Iftar Dinner for opening the fast together  or at least celebrating and sharing the beauty of this month,with this divine soul they fast for the day being invited to dinner...also we visit them regularly giving our best wishes...they have large churches and Hawras beside our mosques;so many mosques and churches are so close to each other,we exchange the bloods while someone needs...here is the city known as Tarsus and Adana may Dear Patty know well...

Syria is also same...where the knowledge is high there the peace comes...

Best Regards

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Originally posted by Mishmish Mishmish wrote:

"mish - please give the references for slave-like obedience, and for complete and total control"

Fred: It doesn't get any clearer than these:

I Timothy 2:11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.  12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.  13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve.  14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression. {Here it is not even Adam's fault that he sinned, it is all Eve}

Give us a break.  The scripture says that both Adam and Eve were at fault.  Adam's sin was greater because he did it deliberately.  Eve was deceived.

I Peter 3:1 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;

Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.  23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.  24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

I Corinthians 11:3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.

I Corinthians 14:34 Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the law.  35 And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.



Mishmish, you misinterpret scriptures.  Put your questions up as separate topics and I will try to explain them to you one at a time, please.

Women are not allowed to be priests in the Catholic church, but they have other roles and they are not silent ones.

Protestant churches have pastors--head pastors who give sermons to all--men and women.  Many of the pastors reach the title of  "bishop."  Women are not silent in the churches and are not subjective to men.  Where have you been?

Can a woman is Islam preach in front of both men and women?

Annie
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