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Originally posted by fredifreeloader fredifreeloader wrote:

no indeed you are not , servetus, but i was not talking about your solution to the problem.  i was referring to the notion floating about in this site that, for some reason, sex was off the menu in the garden of eden. mishmish has referred to it, and so did someone else on another thread, i forget who.  this may relate to the nonsense, believed by many in the west, that sex was the original sin, as can be seen by the symbol of the bitten apple, representing sex

Funny how from my sentence this is what you dedeuced. I also asked if the life and death of Jesus or the Day of Judgement were not meant to be. Yet you jumped right on the procreation thing.

Let me make it clear: there is nothing in Islam that states mankind was not meant to procreate. And contrary to Christian doctrine, we do not believe that the manner a woman gives birth, the pain and blood, are part of the punishment of the "fall", but rather the way God intended it to be. We believe that women recieve blessings for suffering during childbirth, since that is one of woman's main purposes for existing at all. And that by fulfilling this purpose in this manner, she is blessed by God.

See, Muslims believe that man was meant to be on earth, that men were never perfect, that everything is in God's control, it is His will, and that we are doing what we are suppose to do. That our jihad, or struggle, in this life is against our own ability to commit sin and our own ability to choose to deviate from the path of righteousness. That WE are the only ones who can choose this for ourselves, and we alone will be judged by the choices we make. We do not believe that we are responsible for the sins of any other, nor can any other be responsible for our sins. Therefore we reject the idea of Original Sin, or the idea of redemption bought at the price of another's life. We commit the sins, we pay for them. We do good deeds, we get the reward for them. It is just that simple.

 

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Originally posted by Hayfa Hayfa wrote:

  

I tell you, women sure did get the short end of the stick so to speak in Christianity.. so supposedly all women were given this 'punishment' for Eve's transgression???

whats the point here?  are you saying the effects of sin are proportionately greater with women?  if so why - is this why muhammad said that hell is mainly populated by women?

Arguing seems rather pointless. Most Moslems believe that Jesus was a prophet and was sent the basic message of Allah. Along the way we've (people) managed to distort it.  For me, there has been too much deletes, additions and rewrites of the 'message' for me to think that we humans have not messed it up; as we are prone to doing with most other things.

but not, it would seem, in the matter of the transmission of the quran, or in the interpretation of that body of work, the hadith

If you could, please phrase your statements to reflect your viewpoint. For instance: the line "God has given the reason..." to something like in Christianity we believe that God says its because..".

well i think its generally known that im a christian, and therefore what i say will be interpreted accordingly

well for your sake I hope you have it right.. and know exactly what 'in Christ' truly means. If not...  One thing, having been raised Catholic..  there are different ideas to this.. hope that people get it right. No one truly will know until the time comes from. Any true believer in Allah knows it is best to be humble..

once again we are presented the confused idea that the assurance of salvation is somehow not "humble".  the truth is that anyone who has received Gods free gift of eternal life cannot boast about themselves, but only about their Lord and Saviour

If Adam and Eve were 'perfection' then they would not have sinned.

-------------no i have not said they were "perfection", but that they were created perfect human beings.  i have also pointed out that perfection is a relative thing, and that human perfection cannot be equated with divine perfection



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"Let me make it clear: there is nothing in Islam that states mankind was not meant to procreate."

this was not what i meant to say.  what i meant was that i have heard the idea floated a few times by muslims that the bible teaches no sex in eden, and that it was not Gods original intention.  i was merely seeking to correct this impression (which may be an impression i have, not one which is being given)

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Originally posted by Mishmish Mishmish wrote:

Fred: You are talking in circles and contradicting your own posts. Earlier you said that things were not as they were meant to be, now you are saying that they are as they were  meant to be. Do you even really know what you believe?

Not having children was no myth, merely an example. Of course mankind was MEANT to procreate because that's what we are doing. EVERYTHING we are doing, we were MEANT to do. It's not that hard to understand.

well i hope you will point out where ive contradicted myself, and where ive said that things are as they "were meant to be" -  your assertion that "everything we are doing, we were meant to do" is disturbing.  it means we were meant to sin, and this ties in with your story that it took sin to get adam and eve out of the garden, therefore they were intended to sin.  this reveals a god who created people specifically to sin, and therefore he cannot be a holy god, or the true God, as the true God cannot tolerate sin. 

Of course there is Paradise. That is what all Muslims strive for. Have you read the Quran? How can you state that there is no such a place as Paradise?  If, when you die you go immediately to heaven or hell, what is the purpose of the Day of Judgement? Apparently you have already been judged, and are abiding in heaven or hell. Wouldn't a Day of Judgement be redundant in that case? Not to mention extremely cruel to those souls who are already in hell, and then must return there.

it is strange that you should be raising these questions as a muslim.  according to islam, after all, allah has already decided who will be in heaven or hell.  even those who spit in his face and make funny pictures of his apostle are only doing so because they were meant to.  incredible that you should then speak of "cruelty"

Do you believe once you are in hell, that's it? So, if you cheated on your taxes twice, and lied once in a while, you will be condemned for eternity along with someone who committed genocide?

all unforgiven sin, whatever it is, sin not covered by the blood of christ through unbelief, will lead to the lake of fire -----///////i cannot find any reference to seven levels of paradise in the references you quoted

So, no matter what a person does in this life, if they believe Jesus is God and the Savior, they are safe, but if they don't, they are doomed to the hell fire?  What about people who spend their whole lives working with orphans, or lepers, or give away all of their money to charity? This means nothing to God?

How convenient for all the Christians out there who just do whatever they want to do, then say, I believe. Talk about a free pass...

well thank God for his great free pass!  we are unable to please God on our own.  without faith it is impossible to please God - hebrews 11: 6 - that is to say, the correct faith which acknowledges Christ for who he is.  ephesians 2: 8-10 makes clear the truth - we are saved by grace, through faith, not of works, but unto good works.  thus the holy faith of Christ teaches us that works do not lead to salvation, but that the good works pleasing to God are the result of salvation.  a free pass into heaven is not a free pass to do as you like.  makes you wonder, though, how all those muslims feel they can do just as they please, especially as they think they can earn their own salvation.  perhaps theyve just given up, who knows.  after all, even muhammad, the apostle of allah, did not know what allah would do with him - sahih bukhari vol5book58no.266.  now this makes my heart bleed, the poor man, after all he had gone through did not even know what his final end would be - compare this with the confidence of the apostle in 2 timothy 1: 12 and 4: 7,8

 

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{If things are not as God meant them to be, and His creations are other than as God created them, then you are saying that God is not in control?

"no"}

Fred, if God is in control, then things are as they are meant to be. There can logically be no other meaning to this sentence.

God created us imperfect with free will and the ability to commit sin. If He had not created us this way, Adam and Eve could never have sinned. It would have been an impossibility. Adam and Eve could NEVER have done something that God did not give them the ability to do. He created them, they could only do what He allowed them and gave them the ability to do. They sinned, therefore God gave them the ability to sin. He created them that way.  If you disagree with this statement, then prove to me how any thing that God has created can do something other than what God has given it the ability to do.

This does not mean that God created people specifically to sin, God created people to be viscegerents of the earth, but He created us with free will and the ability to choose to sin or not. We must make that choice. We are responsible for the choice we make.

God knows who will go to the hellfire and who will go to Paradise, but we decide that ourselves with our actions and our deeds. God knows everything that we will do and every choice that we will make, He is God and knows everything. However, we still have to make those choices. God does not make people choose evil. God just gave us the ability to choose for ourselves. God did not tell any man to spit in the Prophet's face, but God knew that man would make that choice. God MEANT for us to have the choice. If mankind was never to know sin, or fall from grace, or be imperfect, we never would have been given the choice of free will.

"makes you wonder, though, how all those muslims feel they can do just as they please, especially as they think they can earn their own salvation."

Which Muslims are you referring to? There are always people who claim to be adherents to a religion yet do not follow the teachings. Let's see, hhhhmmmmmm. Wait, we need look know further than those two great bastions of religious piety and leaders of our countries, G.W. Bush and Tony Blair. Both avowed Christians who take religion very seriously. G.W. has been known to have personal conversations with God, and Mr. Blair holds a position  position as high church Anglo-Catholic and publicly states that he holds himself accountable to God for all of his decisions... But I guess they forgot the Ten Commandments somehow, or the admonition to :"turn the other cheek".

So it is grace through faith that saves you, not your deeds, even though God has said that all will be judged according to their deeds and what is written in the book.

So, Paul essentially created a kinder, gentler, much easier religion. Who wouldn't want to be a Christian, all you have to do is say Jesus is God. LITERALLY all you have to do is say Jesus is God.

Yes, it's true. Muslims believe that no man knows his fate, only God knows. No man has a monopoly on God's Grace, nor access to God's Wisdom or Omniscience. No man can know the future or what their fate will be on the Day of Judgement. That is why we must strive to do as many good deeds and help as many people as we can, while we can. Because once you start thinking you are going to heaven without having to work for, you get lazy.

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"all new to me, (and utterly alien to the Christian mind) do you have any quranic references for this? "

Actually Fred, the different levels of heaven are mentioned in the Bible:

2 Corinthians Verse 12: I knew a man in Christ above fourteen years ago, (whether in the body, I cannot tell; or whether out of the body, I cannot tell: God knoweth;) such an one caught up to the third heaven.

Not so utterly alien...

and in the Quran:

65:12 Allah is He Who created seven Firmaments and of the earth a similar number. Through the midst of them (all) descends His Command: that ye may know that Allah has power over all things, and that Allah comprehends, all things in (His) Knowledge.

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You know Fred, I have a very simple question and would like a simple, logical answer, if possible.

If things are not as God meant them to be, then why, when Adam and Eve disobeyed Him, did He not just stop everything right there?

Adam and Eve were the only two humans, and they were the only two who had sinned. Why not just destroy them and start over?

If man's purpose of creation was to dwell in the Garden of Eden, why not destroy the two sinners, and start over with humans who would fulfill their purpose?

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Originally posted by Mishmish Mishmish wrote:

You know Fred, I have a very simple question and would like a simple, logical answer, if possible.

If things are not as God meant them to be, then why, when Adam and Eve disobeyed Him, did He not just stop everything right there?

Adam and Eve were the only two humans, and they were the only two who had sinned. Why not just destroy them and start over?

If man's purpose of creation was to dwell in the Garden of Eden, why not destroy the two sinners, and start over with humans who would fulfill their purpose?

he did not destroy them because he loved them.  thats a simple enough answer, but is it logical?  i dont know and i dont care - is love logical?

he also had the means in place whereby he would, in his grace, redeem his fallen creation

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