Sad Sad Self-Destruction

ak_m_f wrote: Dony worry, we offer the right amount of therapy on IC which will make you spill all your beans....

I understand, dear ak_m_f.

You think that eventually, you will be able to force me to admit to being anti-Muslim. By the Grace of God, I look forward to your attempts, dear ak_m_f.

Affectionately yours,

NastyGuy

Hanan wrote: These are not women like you and me.  They have no precious offspring. They often don't even bother to take care of the one or two vanity children that they do have. Women like you and me? What kind of woman are YOU to make a statement like that? I once saw a woman on TV who would not allow her daughter to play with children who�s parents didn�t look affluent, or at least middle-class. And you really believe that their "vanity" children are not precious to them? This just blows me away. You, of all people, to talk like THAT? I always thought of you as this charitable, kindhearted non-judgmental person. Boy, you sure let the cat out of the bag this time. And what is this FemiNazi crap?

Have you ever watched that show Wife Swap.  Its trash but I had the unfortunate mishap of having to watch and episode while visiting my inlaws.  They had a stay at home mother trade place with a career woman.  The career woman hired a domestic to take care of all her daughter's needs.  She worked long hours and never spent any time with her daughter.  She never cooked, checked homework, they didn't even take her to her horse jumping competitions.  The domestic servant did all of that.  Those are the women I'm talking about.  They are becoming more common.  They drop the child after nine months and then spend the next 18 years pretending to be a mother when there are people around. 

What kind of woman am I?  First off, I place family above all other responsibilities.  My duty as a woman and a daughter of Heavenly Father is to see to my family first.  This means caring for the children's emotional needs.  (God Willing I'll have a child by next year)  This means caring for my Mother when she's ill, my godchildren, my nieces and nephews, my husband when he's ill.  This is personal love and responsibility.  Not something that can be bought.  You cannot hire a proxy to love for you, you must do it yourself. Maryah is a devoted mother and a faithful woman.  I may not be a mother yet, but I have definite ideas on the household I am preparing for my children.  My greatest failing is I do detest people who ignore their familial duties for selfish reasons.  I have no tolerance for the distant mother, the self absorbed father and the lack of family unity.  The greatest degrading of the West is in the Family unit.

As for the FemiNazi comment....this is a term that was coined in a game I used to play in my younger years.  I continue to use it for those feminists who shout about the evils of the Patriarchy and the need to overthrow male power.  These women are not looking for equality but a total reversal in the roles of men and women.  They see religion as a tool of oppression.  These are the women who scream as loudly about the Hijab as they do the Miniskirt.  They scream sexual liberation and abortion/reproductive rights.  Modesty and chasity to them are tools of the Patriarchy to keep women in their place.