Polygamy

 

Glad it went well..

 

I would not be one to tell on her, if he does not like something about what she is doing, he will notice this himself. Sister in a relationship in where there are co-wives, the sisters should want for there sister what they want for themselves. And I am sure you would not want to be told on by your co-wife, that you would not want her to talk about you behind your back. I think any faults that she may have that you notice, you should keep to yourself or discuss them with her and not with your husband. See by telling on her you will be causing discourse between them and this is not how a muslimah should treat her sister, her co-wife.

 

The other thing I noticed is that your husband has told you not to wear heals, then I would not wear them. You can find shoes that have more thicker bottoms without them being heals. So they do not make a click, click sound when one walks. It is best to listen to your husband when he tells you not to do something. In fact it is important to listen to ones husband unless he is telling you something that is against islam to do. This is the only reason not to listen.

 

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