Good Marital Relationship is rewarded

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Asslamu Alaikum

  The exalted and eternally blessed Messenger of Allah has said that, �The most perfect faith have those Muslims who have better morals, and the best of these are those who are best for their women." (Tirmidhi) 

   A hadith has already been quoted which says that the food which one puts in his wife's mouth earns him merit.

 Another hadith goes a bit further and predicts merit even on the sexual act of a husband and a wife. 

  Some of the companions once asked the Holy Messenger of Allah, �We satisfy our carnal needs; does it too earn merit?" Our Holy Prophet replied, �Tell me, would it not be a sin if someone did it in the unlawful way? Then the one who is doing it in the lawful way would certainly get its reward." (Muslim).

    Husband and wife are always together and pass a large portion of their lives in each other's company. It is but natural for frictions to arise. If these normal misunderstandings and displeasures are allowed to degenerate into bitter quarrels and cruelty to each other, then not only are worldly pleasures destroyed but the Divine reward for mutual. love is also lost.

  Hence Allah and his blessed Messenger have formulated for us a perfect guideline for marital bliss; it can be summarized as follows: 

1- "Do not look at only those things which displease you; think too that the partner, who is displeasing you, has some good qualities as well. If you think of these good qualities, the good relationship with your spouse shall be restored". 

  Allah has said, �In a hadith the Messenger of Allah, may he be eternally blessed, has directed as follows, �No believer should have total dislike of a believing woman (because) if he dislikes one thing, there would be some quality (in her) which he would surely like.

 If husband and wife follow this principle and live with mutual love and try their best to be good to each other, their marital life shall be enriched with happiness and they shall go on earning more and more merit and Divine rewards all their lives

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Full of Hopes Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Female Joined: 06 August 2009 Status: Offline Points: 855	Post Options Post Reply Quote Full of Hopes Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: Good Marital Relationship is rewarded Posted: 31 August 2009 at 11:14am
	Asslamu Alaikum The exalted and eternally blessed Messenger of Allah has said that, �The most perfect faith have those Muslims who have better morals, and the best of these are those who are best for their women." (Tirmidhi) A hadith has already been quoted which says that the food which one puts in his wife's mouth earns him merit. Another hadith goes a bit further and predicts merit even on the sexual act of a husband and a wife. Some of the companions once asked the Holy Messenger of Allah, �We satisfy our carnal needs; does it too earn merit?" Our Holy Prophet replied, �Tell me, would it not be a sin if someone did it in the unlawful way? Then the one who is doing it in the lawful way would certainly get its reward." (Muslim). Husband and wife are always together and pass a large portion of their lives in each other's company. It is but natural for frictions to arise. If these normal misunderstandings and displeasures are allowed to degenerate into bitter quarrels and cruelty to each other, then not only are worldly pleasures destroyed but the Divine reward for mutual. love is also lost. Hence Allah and his blessed Messenger have formulated for us a perfect guideline for marital bliss; it can be summarized as follows: 1- "Do not look at only those things which displease you; think too that the partner, who is displeasing you, has some good qualities as well. If you think of these good qualities, the good relationship with your spouse shall be restored". Allah has said, �In a hadith the Messenger of Allah, may he be eternally blessed, has directed as follows, �No believer should have total dislike of a believing woman (because) if he dislikes one thing, there would be some quality (in her) which he would surely like. If husband and wife follow this principle and live with mutual love and try their best to be good to each other, their marital life shall be enriched with happiness and they shall go on earning more and more merit and Divine rewards all their lives �.
	And whoever seeks a religion other than Isl�m, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers(3:85)

SunFlower4Islam Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Joined: 21 October 2009 Status: Offline Points: 2	Post Options Post Reply Quote SunFlower4Islam Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 27 October 2009 at 8:58pm
	Sallam Aleykom! You perfectly post a nice and helpful tips for all couples. I, honestly say that even me, I pick up sumthing here. May Allah reward you for sharing this! fi amanilla

Full of Hopes Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Female Joined: 06 August 2009 Status: Offline Points: 855	Post Options Post Reply Quote Full of Hopes Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 07 December 2009 at 6:37am
	May Allah be pleased... Jazaki Allah Khairn
	And whoever seeks a religion other than Isl�m, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers(3:85)