Mother in law problems

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   Salam.
I have been married to my husband for over 2 years.At the begining we never had a problem, but after few months time problems started between me and his mom. As far as he is concerned his mom is always right. After a years time I had to come( in good terms with my husband) home as I had some immigration issues to settle. From the first day I left she created a hell lot of problems and she totally  twisted him against me.The reason that I went home is because I dont need the marriage , etc. For few months he used to call and e-mail me but now its has been over 6 months that I havnt heard from him.
I tried to call him and leave him a message but there is no reply from him. some of my close friends/ families spoke to him he keeps on saying that she has to talk to my mom. I called his mom and apologised if I have made a mistake and explained it to her that I havent heard from him and for her to find out what it is.
And she never gets back to me either. They have left me both wondering and now knowing whats wrong.
 I have finished all my immigration staff and I am gonna go back in few months time but I dont even know if I am gonna go back to our house or what.
Can somebody advice this situation?

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Semira Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Female Joined: 29 December 2009 Location: United Kingdom Status: Offline Points: 1	Post Options Post Reply Quote Semira Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: Mother in law problems Posted: 29 December 2009 at 12:19am
	Salam. I have been married to my husband for over 2 years.At the begining we never had a problem, but after few months time problems started between me and his mom. As far as he is concerned his mom is always right. After a years time I had to come( in good terms with my husband) home as I had some immigration issues to settle. From the first day I left she created a hell lot of problems and she totally twisted him against me.The reason that I went home is because I dont need the marriage , etc. For few months he used to call and e-mail me but now its has been over 6 months that I havnt heard from him. I tried to call him and leave him a message but there is no reply from him. some of my close friends/ families spoke to him he keeps on saying that she has to talk to my mom. I called his mom and apologised if I have made a mistake and explained it to her that I havent heard from him and for her to find out what it is. And she never gets back to me either. They have left me both wondering and now knowing whats wrong. I have finished all my immigration staff and I am gonna go back in few months time but I dont even know if I am gonna go back to our house or what. Can somebody advice this situation?

Hayfa Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Female Joined: 07 June 2005 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 2368	Post Options Post Reply Quote Hayfa Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 29 December 2009 at 9:13am
	Asalam Aaikum, Welcome to the Forum, Let me ask you? Do you have friends / family in the country you would be going to? Basically: do you have support there. You can go but be prepared for different responses.. if they welcome you or they don't. My duas for you. Hayfa
	When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy. Rumi