Too shy to ask Muslim BF

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   I have been with my Lebanese Muslim Boyfriend for 9mths now , im Christian and before i met my BF i knew little about Islam & Muslims, only what the media portray, which is mainly negative.
Over the last 9mths i have researched islam and become to enjoy doing so & am interest in learning more. As i dont feel Christianity is the right religion for me anymore and havent felt like it for some time now.
I would love to read the Quran but for some silly reason am too shy to ask my boyfriend to grab hold of a copy for me to read. 
I dont know what he would think? would he see it as a good thing?
How could i get a copy of the Quran to read? 
Thank you for reading.

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jennyjo Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter. Female Joined: 11 November 2012 Location: Australia Status: Offline Points: 2	Post Options Post Reply Quote jennyjo Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: Too shy to ask Muslim BF Posted: 12 November 2012 at 12:04am
	I have been with my Lebanese Muslim Boyfriend for 9mths now , im Christian and before i met my BF i knew little about Islam & Muslims, only what the media portray, which is mainly negative. Over the last 9mths i have researched islam and become to enjoy doing so & am interest in learning more. As i dont feel Christianity is the right religion for me anymore and havent felt like it for some time now. I would love to read the Quran but for some silly reason am too shy to ask my boyfriend to grab hold of a copy for me to read. I dont know what he would think? would he see it as a good thing? How could i get a copy of the Quran to read? Thank you for reading.

Caringheart Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 02 March 2012 Status: Offline Points: 2991	Post Options Post Reply Quote Caringheart Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 12 November 2012 at 10:12am
	I was able to get several translations from my local library. Also, they are very easy to purchase online if you want to buy one.

lifeforu9 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter. Joined: 23 November 2012 Status: Offline Points: 4	Post Options Post Reply Quote lifeforu9 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 23 November 2012 at 10:21pm
	I think you hve been in relation & he understands you. So there is nothing to feel shy about ask questions this will clear your image & may ALLAH guide you. INSHAALLAH If you have any questions feel free to ask me. I can help you in sending a copy of QURAN. You can contact me. Do let me know.

janesi87 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter. Female Joined: 24 December 2012 Location: Australia Status: Offline Points: 4	Post Options Post Reply Quote janesi87 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 24 December 2012 at 6:36am
	i think that you should not feel shy. If you ask your boyfriend, i'm sure that he is interesting and can help you a lot. You and your boyfriend will have a good time. Believe me

5purplemarbles Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Newbie Joined: 19 January 2012 Status: Offline Points: 38	Post Options Post Reply Quote 5purplemarbles Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 25 December 2012 at 4:33pm
	Islamicity will send you a free english version of quran. And also your boyfriend would be honored if you asked to have him read quran with you and answer any questions. Thats a beautiful relationship if you want my opinion. And also really if you feel christianity isnt the right religion or maybe you just feel you want to learn more, feel free to ask us here and I am personally at your service for any questions or help. Welcome here salaam alaykym ( peace be upon you) amy

Chrysalis Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 25 November 2007 Status: Offline Points: 2033	Post Options Post Reply Quote Chrysalis Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 27 January 2013 at 7:52pm
	Maybe she doesn't want to ask her BF because she doesn't want any 'expectations' or 'pressure' from him. He might think oh she's accepting Islam... Do your research discreetly. You can read the quran online too: www.quran.com
	"O Lord, forgive me, my parents and Muslims in the Hereafter. O Lord, show mercy on them as they showed mercy to me when I was young."

krazzy1 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter. Female Joined: 26 January 2013 Location: United Kingdom Status: Offline Points: 2	Post Options Post Reply Quote krazzy1 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 28 January 2013 at 7:50am
	I agree with chryslais' comment, do your research on your own and it will help you make a decision by yourself without the feeling of pressure from anyone or make others feel like that. Copies of the Quran are available if you purchase them online.

ZUZU Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter. Joined: 14 December 2013 Status: Offline Points: 1	Post Options Post Reply Quote ZUZU Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 19 December 2013 at 7:59am
	1)you can go online or 2)you can get one from a local masjid or 3)you can ask your BF PS)i personally think that if you ask your BF, he will be proud and happy for you