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    Posted: 28 September 2014 at 11:06am
Salaam,
My question is, what should I do if my parents/family, don't like the physical looks (of just the face) of the girl i like?  They approve of everything else from religion and culture and job and family status- but they kind of already told me they don't really like her face....i know it sounds mean and it is because its bothering me, because I want my family to love her also.....

My backstory is just that I saw her one day and a mutual friend saw me look at her and knew i was interested....THe mutual friend told her, and she said i'm sorry but i don't date and i will only marry whom my family agrees to.  So i told my parents about her (what i knew from my mutual friend) and she told her parents about me (what she knew from our mutual friend) and they allowed us to talk to each other under supervision to get to know each other.....and we really liked each other.....my parents like everything about her....except silly things like telling me her nose is small or her face is wide.....i really don't know how to feel or react....
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Walecum As Salaam tell ur parents that she is created by Allah the cretor of All.she doesn't created herself.
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And it is YOU who is marrying her and not them. Also if they truly love you then they will accept her because you love her as a potential wife.

You tell them to get their act together.
La Ilaha IllAllah
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