Zina

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    Asalaam alikum,
  I would post this question on a fatwa website, but they take a long time and I dont think I have a long time.
  A few nights ago I almost commied zina, I am not married and the non-muslim was not ethier, but I almost commited zina with him. I say almost becasue we did everything but the inthercourse.
 I feel I should tell my sisters...I know what they will do, they will beat me and send me to morocco to live there...
 But I don't resent that treatment, It will keep me out of trouble and let me be the good muslimah I used to be and want to be.
 I live in the US, and go to public school, I was getting so tried of all the Islamic rules I had to follow about everything, and I guess I just wanted to break them, I still want to sometimes...
 I feel sooo bad, guilty, I feel I am going out of control.
 what should I do?

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ayesha17 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Newbie Joined: 18 February 2006 Status: Offline Points: 23	Post Options Post Reply Quote ayesha17 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: Zina Posted: 18 February 2006 at 9:37am
	Asalaam alikum, I would post this question on a fatwa website, but they take a long time and I dont think I have a long time. A few nights ago I almost commied zina, I am not married and the non-muslim was not ethier, but I almost commited zina with him. I say almost becasue we did everything but the inthercourse. I feel I should tell my sisters...I know what they will do, they will beat me and send me to morocco to live there... But I don't resent that treatment, It will keep me out of trouble and let me be the good muslimah I used to be and want to be. I live in the US, and go to public school, I was getting so tried of all the Islamic rules I had to follow about everything, and I guess I just wanted to break them, I still want to sometimes... I feel sooo bad, guilty, I feel I am going out of control. what should I do?

candid Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 16 February 2006 Status: Offline Points: 211	Post Options Post Reply Quote candid Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 18 February 2006 at 9:43am
	Well-done.

ayesha17 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Newbie Joined: 18 February 2006 Status: Offline Points: 23	Post Options Post Reply Quote ayesha17 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 18 February 2006 at 9:51am
	Excuse me??? Well-done?!

candid Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 16 February 2006 Status: Offline Points: 211	Post Options Post Reply Quote candid Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 18 February 2006 at 9:55am
	I don't think you are telling the truth.

ayesha17 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Newbie Joined: 18 February 2006 Status: Offline Points: 23	Post Options Post Reply Quote ayesha17 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 18 February 2006 at 10:01am
	How I am not telling the truth?

ak_m_f Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 15 October 2005 Location: Canada Status: Offline Points: 3272	Post Options Post Reply Quote ak_m_f Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 18 February 2006 at 11:45am
	well ayshea I am not a scholar. so I cant give u the right answer. I think that since you have repented then its ok. just pray every day, even if its one time a day. but try to do it 5 times/day

ayesha17 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Newbie Joined: 18 February 2006 Status: Offline Points: 23	Post Options Post Reply Quote ayesha17 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 18 February 2006 at 12:00pm
	I didnt repent, I am afirad i might sin again...

Suleyman Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 10 March 2003 Location: Turkey Status: Offline Points: 3324	Post Options Post Reply Quote Suleyman Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 18 February 2006 at 12:10pm
	024.003 YUSUFALI: Let no man guilty of adultery or fornication marry and but a woman similarly guilty, or an Unbeliever: nor let any but such a man or an Unbeliever marry such a woman: to the Believers such a thing is forbidden. Is it enough for you to repent or do you want more???...are u joking with us...wake up!!!! u lost ur honour....