Washing a dead body

Brother Suleyman and muslim friends
Cancer is horrible, my mother-in-law suffered, but she was a good muslim. She would tell of of us to pray on her;recite Quran or leave the room. She remembered Allah to the end. She was a role model for the family, she would always pass out her religious cassettes and remind us to pray and be patient; we all miss her. We all should be role models for our children, family and friends. Reminding people to pray and to remember allah has became a strange/ weird thing to do.  I always remind my friends to try to get extra rewards from Allah and they think i'm going crazy ( and they are muslims). It would be nice to write about things that bother us and try to find a solution.