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Henna
Senior Member Joined: 28 July 2005 Location: United Kingdom Status: Offline Points: 146 |
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Dear Christianwoman,
You can read the life story of sister Aminah. http://www.welcome-back.org/profile/aminah1.shtml |
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Angel
Senior Member Joined: 03 July 2001 Status: Offline Points: 6641 |
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Honestly, take a break! learn to relax and get back to the simple things in life, turn back to the things you love to do, cause honestly that will help It's not going to be the end of the world if you take a break from learning islam. I went thru something similar and felt that it was damaging me and I had to pull away. Talk to your mum, or in a letter if that is better, perhaps she is more afraid of losing you. There is alot in islam to learn, even muslims themselves don't know everything trust me I've been here and interacted with muslims here close to 4 years now and some don't understand some things. Don't expect you yourself to do, because you can't, you do your best. I also think you are taking a lot of things to heart, because you love this muslim man, and perhaps hope one day you'll be together, so you image all these things in your head (forgive me if I am wrong) and its all overwhelming and this is where your confusion is coming and you'll losing yourself in it. The best thing is to take a break and learn to re-relax. Listen to your body it tells you what it needs. maybe it is also best to lay out your concerns here, books are not the only way to learn. |
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~ Our feet are earthbound, but our hearts and our minds have wings ~
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christainwoman
Newbie Joined: 21 July 2005 Location: Canada Status: Offline Points: 22 |
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I want to thank all of you for your advice. To the one that wrote that last post...you are right. My mind is lost in dreams. I have always wanted this ,as in a man that will care for me and love me, and now i have it my mind is all over the place.
About my mom, yes I have talked to her and tried to get her to read the things I am. It did not work and when I attempted to talk she had everything BUT positive things to say. I took a break to breath and now starting back up again. I am trying and want to understand. Thank you all again You are wonderful people Taryn |
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herjihad
Senior Member Joined: 26 January 2005 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 2473 |
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Bismillah, Dear Taryn, I agree that coming to this forum and also taking it easy are the best things you can do. Allah, SWT, (Subhanna Wa Ta'la), which is a praise to Allah, wants for you to be at peace. The devil wants us to worry and despair. Take it easy. Take deep breaths. And others may laugh, but exercise in times of stress is usually very beneficial. Even 10 to 20 minutes can change your outlook and take away the blues and worries you have. |
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Al-Hamdulillah (From a Married Muslimah) La Howla Wa La Quwata Illa BiLLah - There is no Effort or Power except with Allah's Will.
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