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ysimjee
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Posted: 08 November 2006 at 5:04am |
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The following has been on my mind for some time. It has come to my attention that most indian girls go for "confinement" a month before they give birth and stay 40 days after they have given birth. Now, where did this "tradition" come from and why is it when the girls hear they expecting, they already plan there trip home to there parents house. Then, what about converts? a friend of mine is from a christian/tamel home. Her parents are totally agenst islam. But she already planned her "confinement" trip. So now the baby will be born, taken to this house, and no islamic practise will be carried out!! What should be done in these cases? Please help me with some answers. Jazakallah |
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Duende
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I don't know what cultural/religious reasons there may be about
'confinement' but like so many religious/cultural practises, it's based pretty much on common sense. By the time you get to the last month of pregnancy, so-called confinenent is simply a sensible idea since there's no telling when your baby will decide to come into the light, and being home alone at that moment, is not a good idea! Besides, the fact is that by that time you feel like the size of a cow and about as mobile and elegant, so you're pretty limited in how much you can get around, up and down stairs, carrying heavy packages etc. which all place a tremendous strain on your system at this late stage. Emotionally you also feel the need for a stable and emotionally supportive environment: something traditionally your parents (mostly mother) can offer you. Likewise, post partum, you need as much help as you can get, traditionally provided by the grandmother, sisters, aunts, etc. These days, of course, as pre and post natal care in the so-called developed world has advanced so much, there's no real reason to confine yourself to home in case of medical emergency. But in many rural areas and ancient cultures, the custom is still practised, and I believe provides a far more worthwhile and enriching experience than many modern 'advances'. |
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Thanks for the reply. It gives a little light at the end of the tunnel... |
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