I think I want to get married to him....

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   I know this guy that I think would make an amazing husband.

He's pious, caring, ambitious, hard working, and kind.

All the qualities I want in a man. I really want him to pursue me in marriage. He did mention to me that he is looking for a wife and stuff...

The only problem though is that im quite young. I'm going to be 18 in two months. I do believe hes alot older than I am. He could be in his 30s for all I know. I havent asked him about his age before. But he has a job and his own house and he also happens to have a daughter... so that makes me think that hes alot older.

And another problem is that he seems to want to marry in the next couple of years(max), and I still have 4 years of education to go. My family would NEVER let me get married while I'm at school. Personally speaking, I dont know if I want to do that either. But I think if I found the right person, which I think I might have now, I wouldnt mind as much.

I dont know. I'm conflicted. I dont want to lose my chance with a great guy, because there's not many out there.

But at the same time, there seems to be alot in the way of this. 

And I am clearly interested in him, but I have no clue how to express that appropriately..

So please help me brothers and sisters?

Edited by nads - 01 August 2015 at 10:31am

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nads Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter. Joined: 01 August 2015 Location: United Kingdom Status: Offline Points: 1	Post Options Post Reply Quote nads Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: I think I want to get married to him.... Posted: 01 August 2015 at 9:49am
	I know this guy that I think would make an amazing husband. He's pious, caring, ambitious, hard working, and kind. All the qualities I want in a man. I really want him to pursue me in marriage. He did mention to me that he is looking for a wife and stuff... The only problem though is that im quite young. I'm going to be 18 in two months. I do believe hes alot older than I am. He could be in his 30s for all I know. I havent asked him about his age before. But he has a job and his own house and he also happens to have a daughter... so that makes me think that hes alot older. And another problem is that he seems to want to marry in the next couple of years(max), and I still have 4 years of education to go. My family would NEVER let me get married while I'm at school. Personally speaking, I dont know if I want to do that either. But I think if I found the right person, which I think I might have now, I wouldnt mind as much. I dont know. I'm conflicted. I dont want to lose my chance with a great guy, because there's not many out there. But at the same time, there seems to be alot in the way of this. And I am clearly interested in him, but I have no clue how to express that appropriately.. So please help me brothers and sisters? Edited by nads - 01 August 2015 at 10:31am

fais Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 24 August 2009 Location: Oman Status: Offline Points: 344	Post Options Post Reply Quote fais Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 27 November 2015 at 1:55pm
	Assalam Alaikum, Have patience Sister. Dont just marry someone thinking you will not get someone later. Think before you take any decision. He has a child that means he had a bad marriage. I think you should stop here and concentrate on your studies. But tell you what, you wont stop as you are in your age of adolescence and at this age its hard for a person to take right decision. May Allah help you.