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    Posted: 14 May 2010 at 1:03am
I am a non-Muslim and I fear Islam.

How can I not fear a religion that seems so violent? You hear the words Allah Akhbar (sp?) while roadbombs go off killing people. You hear them yelled by hate-filled men who stone women or cut off heads (with delight it appears).

Make no mistake, I know Christianity has its own history of violence and oppression but for the most part Chritianity outgrew it. When will islam outgrow it?

I LOVE freedom. I love freedom of speech (and that includes the freedom to to criticise religion - ANY religion including Islam. It seems I am free to criticise the conduct of members of any religion BUT Islam. Why?

I also love sexual freedom. It saddens me that so many people adhere to religions that suppress their sexual freedom (I feel the same way about catholicism by the way, just for SOME reason I don't feel as threatened by Catholics. They don't feel entitled to insult or rape women who wear short skirts - sadly, in a western country with a growing muslim population, it seems we have to get used to being called names in our OWN country. And if we're lucky, that's all we have to deal with. If we're unlucky - we end up raped by gangs of Muslim youngsers who feel it is their right because our women are whores. I am appalled by the way both the Catholic church and islam are almost obsessed with female virginity. Frankly, it sickens me to my stomach.
Bottomline, I am happy to have all the freedoms we have in a western society and I feel Islam missed the age of reason and enlightenment. Please don't tell me how much more progressive Islam was while Europe was stuck in the Middle Ages - I am worried about the Islam that we see TODAY. The way it presents itself today. Violent, aggressive, intolerant but forever DEMANDING respect and tolerance from others, sexually oppressive towards women (I've personally witnessed young girls being locked up and forced into marriage - in 21st century Central Europe. Seems humans rights violations in the name of islam are just fine and dandy).

So yes, I fear it. I see it as a threat to the lifestyle I love.

Any comments?

I found this forum because I wanted to actually read from Muslims who were... normal, average people. I wanted to find out how THEY eel. Unfortunately one of the first posts I read blamed "Zioists" for the 2006 Tsunami. So I am - skeptical.
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They don't feel entitled to insult or rape women who wear short skirts - sadly, in a western country with a growing muslim population, it seems we have to get used to being called names in our OWN country.

Hey Freespirit, are you a man or a woman? Let me tell you fear or rape or insults has NOTHING to do with religion. I teach self-defense and you are delving way too much into stereotypes. And if all the Muslim men felt "entitled" to rape there would be more male Muslim rapists. Nothing, nothing shows that there is any correlation. In fact the vast majority of women are raped by someone they know. I just taught a self-defense class to teenagers, Muslims were not mentioned once.. you need to check your facts.

If you don't think MEN, in general are obsessed with porn, sexuality, etc as a whole you know nothing about the BILLION dollar industry that exists all over the world. Did you know that buying sex is bigger business that making cars in Japan? That's enlightenment for you. The fact that so many men buy prostitutes and child prostitutes all over the world shows sexual obsession is a problem that lots of men deal with. Tiger Woods comes to mind as a public example.  Muslim men are no different then the vast majority of men all over the world. Some are good, some are not so good.  

You are right that some young people are forced into marriage. Some young people all over the world are forced into prostitution. Religion has little to do with it. Christians in certain countries "force" their children into marriage, so do Hindus.

Considering the state of your "free" world,  I really doubt society will suddenly repress teen sex, naked women all over and the "almost anything" goes culture. That genie is not going back in the bottle so to speak. Many young people are raising themselves cause their parents are too busy either making money or living the "free life" with no accountability.

Honestly, you may be watching too much news. I"d be more worried about the senseless wars, deficits, loss of "freedoms" by our government and the Chinese economic power. If there will be a collapse, it won't be from the Muslims.

Yes and we have reached the age of "reason and enlightenment" enough to cause world wars, send 58,000 US people to their senseless deaths in Vietnam, using the atomic bomb, the detainment of innocent people and the rise in "free sex" diseases such as AIDS. We value people only in terms of the "work production" they represent to the economy, we also shuffle our old people off to homes when it is no longer convenient to us. We are so enlightened we have used our own children, nonwhite people in medical experiments...  so much "enlightenment."



Edited by Hayfa - 15 May 2010 at 6:54pm
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Oh God, not another one of these people!  Hayfa pretty much nailed it though.  The questions that "FreeSpirit" has asked have been asked ad nauseum and answered ad nauseum.  I seem to remember another person on this forum several months back that asked similar questions.  Perhaps FreeSpirit can find more answers to his/her questions here:

http://www.islamicity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14732&KW=

Notice the similar introductions and the almost similar questions and the classic stereotyping, as Hayfa mentioned.
Say: "Truly, my prayer and my service of sacrifice, my life and my death, are (all) for Allah, the Cherisher of the Worlds. (Surat al-Anaam: 162)

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Originally posted by freespirit freespirit wrote:

I am a non-Muslim and I fear Islam.

How can I not fear a religion that seems so violent? You hear the words Allah Akhbar (sp?) while roadbombs go off killing people. You hear them yelled by hate-filled men who stone women or cut off heads (with delight it appears).
So yes, I fear it. I see it as a threat to the lifestyle I love.

Any comments?

 
If Allah had so willed, He would have made you a single people, but (His plan is) to test you in what He hath given you: so strive as in a race in all virtues. 5:48
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I was in grad school in the late 70's (Tulane) and we had beaucoup Muslim grad students, primarily from Saudi and Iran.  Some from Indonesia too.  There were no jihadis and no Christian right.  Christians and Muslims respected each other and were friends and colleagues.  There was no 'clash of civilizations' at all. 

The question is not why is Islam violent but rather why did a peaceful religion suddenly attract and nurture violent people.  There were three main reasons:

1) Palestinian suicide bombers.  An abhorrent and demonic development, it destroyed western support for Palestine and Islam. 
2) The CIA training of jihadis as terrorists set against the USSR in Afghanistan.  The entire jihadi meme is a CIA creation.
3) Political demagoguery.  Keep people afraid and you can control them.

Seriously, freespirit, there are millions of Muslims everywhere.  They are in the military, in our chemical and nuclear facilities, airports, railways - everywhere.  They have nuclear weapons.  They have biological weapons.  Muslims could cause a lot of damage if they wanted to, but they don't.

Instead, we get a guy trying to ignite his shoes on an airplane.  And when we think that is about as st**id as a terrorist can get, we get a guy who tries to explode his Fruit of the Looms. But is he the ultimate idiot? No, next we have a jihadi who stuffs a bomb up his kiester and asks the sheik of whereveritwas to pull his finger.  A muffled boom, and his body absorbs the blast leaving the sheik bewildered but unharmed.

Islam isn't the problem.  Politics is the problem, and politics will always attempt to seduce religion.  My best advice is to pray and stay close to God.  That is the only way to defeat fear.
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I have to admit that this time I agree with you my friend.
After all, we have to see who is the real victim, who are loosing lives every day. As I recall one former US soldier saying in an interview on either NPR or Democracynow.org , " we are there on a population reduction mission"

Free spirit, you say you fear Islam. You know what you are saying is that you fear submission to God, that's what Islam means. You should fear God, who knows and records all you deeds and intentions and those will be used one day in your favor or against you, depending if they were in line with His teachings or not.

Hasan



Edited by honeto - 27 May 2010 at 8:43pm
The friends of God will certainly have nothing to fear, nor will they be grieved. Al Quran 10:62

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Originally posted by freespirit freespirit wrote:

I LOVE freedom. I love freedom of speech (and that includes the freedom to to criticise religion - ANY religion including Islam. It seems I am free to criticise the conduct of members of any religion BUT Islam. Why?

Freedom of speeeeeeeech! Awww, Gawd, how many times have I heard this touchy touchy phrase Big%20smile
Sorry to say this but you, sir, fail at your definition. "I love freedom of speech".... "and that includes the freedom to to criticise religion"...Dontcha think ya need to quit the act of innocence? Cuz, the way I see it, you, or to be specific the people responsible in context to the events you're referring to, had without a doubt NOT followed this definition of freedom of speech, meaning to have a right to CRITICIZE the conduct of the followers of the religion. Drawing extremely offensive and disgusting cartoons aimed at a highly respected figure of faith and intentionally bringing them up in public, passing severely hurtful comments around, spreading massive hatred for the religion, and etc, I could go on and on. You say this is just 'expression of views'? ....Nice one Big%20smile


Originally posted by freespirit freespirit wrote:

I also love sexual freedom. It saddens me that so many people adhere to religions that suppress their sexual freedom (I feel the same way about catholicism by the way, just for SOME reason I don't feel as threatened by Catholics. They don't feel entitled to insult or rape women who wear short skirts - sadly, in a western country with a growing muslim population, it seems we have to get used to being called names in our OWN country. And if we're lucky, that's all we have to deal with. If we're unlucky - we end up raped by gangs of Muslim youngsers who feel it is their right because our women are whores. I am appalled by the way both the Catholic church and islam are almost obsessed with female virginity. Frankly, it sickens me to my stomach.
Bottomline, I am happy to have all the freedoms we have in a western society and I feel Islam missed the age of reason and enlightenment. Please don't tell me how much more progressive Islam was while Europe was stuck in the Middle Ages - I am worried about the Islam that we see TODAY. The way it presents itself today. Violent, aggressive, intolerant but forever DEMANDING respect and tolerance from others, sexually oppressive towards women (I've personally witnessed young girls being locked up and forced into marriage - in 21st century Central Europe. Seems humans rights violations in the name of islam are just fine and dandy).

So yes, I fear it. I see it as a threat to the lifestyle I love.

Shoulda said so earlier! You hate a religion cuz its strictly against your lifestyle, which apparently no one has taught you, is nothing but pathetic, atleast the few parts that you've implied me. How expected Big%20smile
I wouldn't call a clearly biased judgement of a religion like this one fair which simply bases on the religion going against your lifestyle, which to me honestly sounds a little corrupted. Cheers.

My friend sitting next to me had something to comment about as well > >
He says : A religion against your lifestyle is enough of a reason to hate it? Or maybe watching news helps you understand that you have seen it all to judge a religion, if that were so I'm getting wrong ideas about religions... Smile
I don't know what your parents have taught you about respecting religions but my parents have surely taught me how to respect others not only elders and religions as well. Smile


K, back to myself now. Tongue

And yeh, that's one killer of a post Hayfa. Always a great feeling to see someone backstab a baseless accuser with nothing but true facts Big%20smile


Edited by xx__Ace__xx - 07 June 2010 at 4:23pm
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