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Seek some psychological counselling.  I've never heard of someone having too much hormones.  Testosterone drives male sex drive, however, it also develops muscles.  You should consider doing weights and exercising frequently to cause this to subside.

I think your problem is completely psychological.  Some people have an addiction to sex and you may be prescribed an antidepressant.  Citalopram, fluoxetine, paroxetine, sertraline, fluvoxamine are SSRIs.  They are the first line treatments for anxiety, depression and obsessive compulsive disorders you have.  So you should talk to your doctor and explain your symptoms of anxiety and depression over this problem and maybe he will get you some counselling or some drugs.

And remember to pray and work hard as well!!!



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Originally posted by Shams Zaman Shams Zaman wrote:

Dear brother!

Get married and you will be over with this problem. Marrige is the natural and Islamic cure to this problem. Even if you think one is not enough go for four, I am sure with 4 wives your problem will vanish even if it is anxiety or extra functioning of your sperm machine.

Shams Zaman

This is not going to help him nor solve his problem. From the short mention of what he is goign thru this tells me its more of a problem than simple getting married perhaps to 4 to solve it.

Megatron, I agree with you but you can have too much of (a) hormone/s.

Agree with DavidC.

To the original poster, I suggest you go back to your doctor, get some help with your anxiety, you're getting a double dose here one; you are anxious becaue you feel what you do is too much and leads to worrying, two because you do not want to commit zina, which also leds to worrying.

If your doctor is not going to help you, then go to another reputable doctor.

Have you gone down the path of natural remedies, at least for your anxiety and tensions. You do really need to relax and relax that mind, if you go to a homeopath and being in germany I don't think you'll have a hard time finding a good one, they can help with many things according to your needs.

I like to go to natural therapies before going to prescribed medical drugs for anxiety, depression etc. It is better to say away from them it should be the utmost last resort.

And try to do other things, go swimming, running, to the gym, I believe you need to be active here and not be passive like reading. Get up and do something. This will also help to get tensions out of you, calm anxiety that you have.
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The brother may never get better if he continues feeling like a murderer because he masturbates. Masturbation may be sinful, but certainly far less sinful than actual zina (fornication). He should get relaxed about it.

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Yah I know...I've never seen someone so stressed about having the urge to masturbate.

They say that 98% of men masturbate and the other 2% are filthy liars.
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Do something to take your mind off of it. PLay video games! Woot! Being addicted that much is unhealthy.
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what's the daleel that masturbation is haram? i didn't know that it was.
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Originally posted by wolf0moon wolf0moon wrote:

hii iam 20years old german male i have great problem iam suffering from over masturbation i have tried every technique ..
 
loneliness and your age is the main cause of your problem.
 
As you said its easy for zina in your country means you definetly be over exposed to nudity or similar things every now and then. 
 
Get married as soon as possible bro.
It will cure your all problems including harmone disbalance.
 
Moreover,the common family problems which arise after marriage will certainly distract you from those nonsense thinkings due to your loneliness and exposure to things that leads to zina (masturbation by choice).
 
Enjoy the life in the natural way by getting married and have babies .
dont go for artificial things to satisfy your needs.
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