Am I the wrong one?

The last few years, my mother has gotten extremely religious. That's great for her, but not for me. I pray, going to masjid whenever I can, I fast, I donate, I try to read the holy quran whenever I can. I follow the five pillars as best as I can, but she forces the first pillar, Shahadah, on me rather harsh. If I'm not living my life in the life of the Prophet, I am not a good muslim.

Lately she's been getting upset over the fact if I don't want to go to a religious program. This happened last Friday when I didn't want to go to a religious program because I had to study. She got mad. Lately her view is if your not a full fledged Muslim (going to these programs, spending time in masjid over the weekend, and etc.) your not really a muslim. She won't even eat dinner with me and my dad because she wants to sit on the floor and eat like how the Prophet did. I feel like I have to go to these programs just so I wont have to deal with her getting upset.

We have a family friend who I think would be her perfect idle soon. He grows a beard, he goes to different masjid's every month to spread the word of Islam, he has his wife completely covered up, and has her stay in another room when we would go to his house. I don't see myself as that type of person. Maybe one day I might be able to live like that, but these days don't seem like that.

Am I a bad Muslim? Or is there a way I can have my mom back off without upsetting her?

    Narrated Abu Huraira:

    The Prophet said, "Religion is very easy and whoever overburdens himself in his religion will not be able to continue in that way. So you should not be extremists, but try to be near to perfection and receive the good tidings that you will be rewarded; and gain strength by worshiping in the mornings, the nights." (Sahih Muslim Vol 1, Book 2, Number 38), (See Fath-ul-Bari, Page 102, Vol 1).

Salam,
it is not very uncommon though, parents want to see their children better than themselves, in education, job, life and of course as in this case also for the hereafter.
It is also true that sometimes parents may not know how to help kids become better than themselves. I see may be the method is the issue.
It is also important to remember as Muslims, that our parents are to be respected and followed, because they want best for us. The only time you may disobey is if they try to take you away from worship of God.
I guess, I will say try to be understanding and use creativity and kind ways to let her know your other important assignments (at school etc) in a way that she can feel assure and trusting of you.
Also do a lot of dua and ask Allah's help. And remember, fulfilling all obligations that we are given by Allah is not extremism as mentioned by (I Love Jesus guy).

Hasan