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No he's not a US citizen, but a canadian citizen like myself, the rest of his family has a US citizenship. and he wanted to marry a US citizen because it is easier for him to move there apparently as she can sponsor him. We're both Indians  and from the same city there, both currently living in Canada as Canadian citizens. so in our case, we are both from the same culture and our parents are family friends and very open minded allowing us to choose our partners. but in his case he just had a player mentality, selfishness and lack of empathy over someone he was talking to for so long. he chose to go with the other girl as he started talking to both of us just recently without either of us finding out, he knew he would marry her but continued to keep me in the dark because he did not want me to leave him before he confirms things with her.
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Originally posted by Heartbroken Heartbroken wrote:

 
i know its done, i'm just finding it very hard to move on. there is so much marriage pressure on me., parents tell me i need to find a guy in a marriage bureau or newspaper ad just the thought alone scares me.


Try this:

www.halfourdeen.com

I know people who  have tried this. All the members on this are serious and no-nonsense. I think you should give it a try...
 
Quote its been 2 months and i have not improved, cant focus at home, work anywhere, still crying, i hate hearing the words marriage, wedding spouses husband wife drives me crazy!! if you guys have tips, please share. :(


2 months is nothing compared to how long you knew him. It will take time, maybe lots of it. Meanwhile, the best thing to hurry up your mourning process would be to find constructive, fun and productive things to do. Socialise with your friends, and focus on future relationships. Maybe going on the site above and looking at prospectives might help! Look ahead now and give it time.


"O Lord, forgive me, my parents and Muslims in the Hereafter. O Lord, show mercy on them as they showed mercy to me when I was young."
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