Complaining to my mother

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   As Salamun alaikum my mother is very mean to me. When I complain about the living habits how I should about my mother's son with another man living in my house she screams at me and tries to make me seem like i'm not telling the truth. How should I respond to this in the way a messenger of Allah would?

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youssefbaye Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Newbie Male Islam Joined: 09 May 2018 Location: Brooklyn, NY Status: Offline Points: 20	Post Options Post Reply Quote youssefbaye Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: Complaining to my mother Posted: 13 March 2020 at 1:22pm
	As Salamun alaikum my mother is very mean to me. When I complain about the living habits how I should about my mother's son with another man living in my house she screams at me and tries to make me seem like i'm not telling the truth. How should I respond to this in the way a messenger of Allah would?

abuayisha Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Muslim Joined: 05 October 1999 Location: Los Angeles Status: Offline Points: 5105	Post Options Post Reply Quote abuayisha Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 14 March 2020 at 6:00am
	Perhaps, and for good reason, she's defensive about "another man" living in your house, therefore don't make things difficult for your mom with your complaints. If you are able to quietly rectify these conditions on your own then do so. Take responsibility and relieve your mom of the trouble.