lebanese wrote:
assalam allikum thank u so much for all you
responses they helped me out. why is it every website i go to says
something different than what im doing.so i get worried that allah wont
accept my prayer even though i was taught that allah will accept salat
even if u just say the fatiha in english just that the nayia is in your
heart.
i still feel obligated to get the perfect way and actually it would
be wonderful if some one could explain the wudu it would not do any
harm.
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Found a really good article on prayer, from a Quran alone perspective
How many times have you asked GOD for something?.
Did GOD answer your prayer every time?.
Did GOD answer your prayers at all!.
"When My servants ask you about Me,
I am always near. I answer their prayers when they pray to
Me. The people shall respond to Me and believe in Me, in order
to be guided." (2:186)
How can this be!. If GOD is telling us in
His holy book that He answers prayers...Then WHY is He ignoring
mine!!!.
This is really the dilemma that most of us
go through on a regular basis, and which eventually works
at eroding our faith, belief, and contact with GOD.
If GOD is hearing us, why doesn't He answer?.
Is it because I am bad?.
Or is it because I am not praying the way
He wants, or fasting the way He told us, or doing all the
commands that He has sent?.
We tear ourselves apart trying to work out
where the 'mistakes' are and why we are being ignored...
But, is GOD really ignoring us?. Can the
words of the Lord be 'untruthful'?.
"GOD's promise- and GOD never breaks
His promise- but most people do not know." (30:6)
Let us tackle this issue using GOD's own
words for guidance:
"This Quran guides to the best path,
and brings good news to the believers who lead a righteous
life, that they have deserved a great recompense." (17:9)
1. Can we ask GOD for 'worldly' items?.
This is really the 'million $' question!.
Many people have been able to convince themselves that GOD
hears all prayers, but that the rewards are all attained in
the next life...not this Earthly one.
Let us see if that is true:
"He said, "My Lord, forgive me,
and grant me a KINGSHIP never attained by anyone else. You
are the Grantor. We committed the wind at his disposal, pouring
rain wherever he wanted." (38:35-36)
It appears that Solomon request for a pure
'Earthly' Kingship was answered!.
"...Whenever Zachariah entered her
sanctuary he found provisions with her. He would ask, "Mary,
where did you get this from?" She would say, "It
is from GOD. GOD provides for whomever He chooses, without
limits." (3:37)
Here we find GOD providing 'Earthly' sustenance
for Mary!.
"That is when Zachariah implored his
Lord: "My Lord, grant me such a good child; You are the
Hearer of the prayers. The angels called him when he was praying
in the sanctuary: "GOD gives you good news of John; a
believer in the word of GOD, honorable, moral, and a righteous
prophet." (3:38-39)
And Zachariah asking for an "Earthly"
son!.
Now that we have seen that asking for worldly
items is a 'Reality'...Let us see what else we can ask for.
2. Can we ask GOD for things in the Hereafter?.
"And GOD cites as an example of those
who believed the wife of Pharaoh. She said, "My Lord,
build a home for me at You in Paradise, and save me from Pharaoh
and his works; save me from the transgressing people."
(66:11)
Pharaoh's wife seeks a 'Heavenly' reward
from GOD.
"My Lord, forgive me and my parents,
and anyone who enters my home as a believer, and all the believing
men and women..." (71:28)
Noah seeks 'forgiveness' from the Lord (a
heavenly reward).
"Anyone who commits evil, or wrongs
his soul, then implores GOD for forgiveness, will find GOD
Forgiving, Most Merciful." (4:110)
GOD's 'forgiveness' is (of course) Heavenly!.
Thus, we can ask for things in this life
as well as the after-life!.
Now, if the Quran establishes both of the
above facts, then WHY is it our prayers go unanswered!!!.
Pre-conditions:
The Quran tells us that GOD answers the calls
that implore Him with 'conditions':
Condition # 1: GOD Alone is Implored.
"If you are afflicted in the middle
of the sea, you forget your idols, EXCEPT HIM. But as soon
as He saves you to the shore, you revert. Indeed, the human
being is unappreciative." (17:67)
"When they ride on a ship, they implore
GOD, devoting their prayers to ONLY HIM. But as soon as He
saves them to the shore, they revert to idolatry." (29:65)
"When violent waves surround them,
they implore GOD, sincerely devoting their prayers to ONLY
HIM. But as soon as He saves them to the shore, some of them
revert. None discards our revelations except those who are
betrayers, unappreciative." (31:32)
"Who is the One who rescues those who
become DESPERATE and call upon Him, relieves adversity, and
makes you inheritors of the earth? Is it another god with
GOD? Rarely do you take heed." (27:62)
This condition is of a 'general' nature for
those people who from time to time, especially when in great
distress, implore on Him Alone from the heart...
Many people who believe in 'Special Abilities'
for Jesus, Mohammed, the Saints, the Scholars, etc... will
go-through life without having GOD answer their prayers or
needs (GOD will however show every human being the way- Let
him who wills believe, and he who wills reject).
However, in EXTREME cases, these very same
people will unknowingly and unwittingly implore on 'GOD Alone'
from the heart to save or help them...Yet, as soon as their
crisis is over, they go back to having idols in their hearts
and forget that it was Him 'Alone' that saved them (29:65).
Condition # 1: makes it clear why most of
us go-through life without having GOD answer our calls and
prayers...We all have many 'idols' in our lives (money, children,
ego, power, prophets, saints, wise-men, etc..) which DISQUALIFIES
us from having GOD answer our prayer.
Even the Prophets were not answered when
they let something 'other' than GOD Alone get in the way:
"And Zan-Noon (Jonah), abandoned his
mission in protest, thinking that we could not control him.
He ended up imploring from the darkness: 'There is no god
other than YOU. Be You glorified. I have committed a gross
sin. We responded to him, and saved him from the crisis; we
thus save the believers." (21:87-88)
Condition # 2: GOD Alone is Followed.
The real secret for knowing how to have your
prayers ALWAYS answered (not just in times of distress) is
to 'Live The Life' that is the path of 'GOD Alone':
"Those who proclaim: "1. Our Lord
is GOD," then * 2. lead a righteous life (Istaqamu),
the angels descend upon them: 'You shall have no fear, nor
shall you grieve. Rejoice in the good news that Paradise has
been reserved for you. We are your allies in THIS LIFE, and
in the Hereafter. You will have IN IT anything you desire
for; you will have anything you ask." (41:30-31)
* The 'Straigh-Path' (Siraat Mustaqeem) can
be found in the following verses: 6:151-153.
You see, many people say and believe that
the 'Lord is GOD'...Yet their prayers go unanswered.
Many people 'lead a righteous life'...Yet
their prayers go unanswered.
It is only when these 2 elements are put
TOGETHER that the 'Special Formula' for having your prayers
answered can come to work!.
The Angels become 'assigned' to these people
as their 'Allies' and they carry the responsibility (from
GOD) of meeting the needs and desires of these people (in
this worldly life).
These TWO conditions are further enforced
in the next verses:
"Who can utter better words than one
who: 1. invites to GOD, 2. works righteousness, and says:
'I am one of the Submitters?" (41:33)
Thus, a Submitter is defined by these two
terms (believes in GOD, works righteousness).
Condition # 2 : To have your prayers ALWAYS
answered, you should be a Submitter (Believe in GOD &
Lead a Righteous Life).
Being a Submitter, is also the surest way
to enter Paradise:
"Surely, those who say: 1. Our Lord
is GOD, then 2. lead a righteous life (Istaqamu), will have
no fear, nor will they grieve. They have deserved Paradise,
where they abide forever; a reward for their works."
(46:13-14)
Condition # 3: What you ask is what you
Get.
When speaking to GOD, we will ask for many
things, and we will think of what to say and whether we want
this or that thing...GOD does NOT respond to your 'words',
but He will respond to what is asked from the 'Heart'.
Sometimes, a person may express a particular
need or wish in his prayer directly, while thinking something
to himself that expresses a different desire. GOD responds
to the innermost desire.
Remember what the Angels have been committed
to in Condition # 2?
"We are your allies in this life, and
in the Hereafter. You will have in it anything you desire
(tashtahoon); you will have anything you ask." (41:30-31)
The verse makes clear that what you 'Desire'
will take PRECEDENCE over what you 'Ask for'.
So, if you are asking for a 'New House',
but really desire a 'Child'...Then do not get upset if you
are granted the 'Child' and not the 'House'.
Condition # 4: Only what is Good for
you is given!.
While you may have truly asked for certain
things (like change of job), GOD may not respond to your prayer
since in it will be more harm than good.
GOD (in His ultimate Mercy for mankind) will
only give you what is better (not worse).
"Fighting may be imposed on you, even
though you dislike it. But you may dislike something which
is good for you, and you may like something which is bad for
you. GOD knows while you do not know." (2:216)
If a child asks a parent for a 'snake', then
the parent out of 'Love' for his/her child can never meet
such a request...The Lord is more Merciful and Loving than
any human being can EVER be, thus only the good things will
be given (even-though we may not see that).
"Proclaim: 'If you possessed my Lord's
treasures of mercy, you would have withheld them, fearing
that you might exhaust them. The human being is indeed stingy."
(17:100)
Condition # 5: Patience in Observed.
Now that we understand how to have our prayers
answered, we must also understand that GOD responds 'As' and
'When' He sees fit:
"He is not questioned about anything
He does, while all others are questioned." (21:23)
The Lord is our creator, GOD, and Master...He
would never do anything to 'Harm' us or inflict 'Pain' or
'Suffering' to His servants...Thus, we must allow GOD to answer
our calls in the 'Best Manor' that He deems rather than in
our own 'Selfish' manor, which may cause more harm than good.
"Moses said to his people, "Seek
GOD's help, and be patient. The earth belongs to GOD, and
He grants it to whomever He chooses from among His servants.
The ultimate victory belongs to the righteous." (7:128)
"But if We give him a taste of (Our)
favors after adversity hath touched him, he is sure to say,
"All evil has departed from me:" Behold! he falls
into exultation and pride. Not so do those who show patience
and constancy, and work righteousness; for them is forgiveness
(of sins) and a great reward." (11:10-11)
"I have rewarded them this Day for
their patience and constancy: they are indeed the ones that
have achieved Bliss..." (23:111)
"We did not send any messengers before
you who did not eat food and walk in the markets. We thus
test you by each other; will you steadfastly persevere? Your
Lord is Seer." (25:20)
A Submitter doesn't keep asking "why
wasn't this or that prayer answered?" or "why do
these bad things happen to me, while I'm a good person?",
etc., but rather looks to see how GOD is always responding
to and giving him and how He never fails to answer prayers
on terms far better than what we like to impose.
Condition # 6: GOD Alone is Remembered.
Once we ask GOD Alone for help or for 'something',
we must NOT turn our backs to Him and expect that He will
still be there to help us.
"He (Joseph) then said to the one to
be saved: 'Remember me at your lord.' Thus, the devil caused
him to forget his Lord, and, consequently, he remained in
prison a few more years." (12:42)
In the story of Joseph, we see how a 'righteous'
man, a Messenger, was left to spend years in-prison because
he did not 'Remember' to implore GOD Alone!.
Always keep GOD is your heart and in your
mind...Without Him, we are all absolutely NOTHING.
WARNING!!!
Although the above tells us how to have our
prayers answered, we should heed the advise of GOD who tells
us:
"...Some people would say: 'Our Lord,
give us of this world,' while having no share in the Hereafter."
(2:200)
Do not be fooled by this world alone...For
it is but an illusion.
"The life of this world is no more
than illusion and vanity, while the abode of the Hereafter
is far better for the righteous. Do you not understand?!"
(6:32)
"Anyone who seeks the materials of
this world should know that GOD possesses both the materials
of this world and the Hereafter. GOD is Hearer, Seer."
(4:134)
What your prayers should encompass is:
"Others would say: 'Our Lord, grant
us good things in this world, and good in the Hereafter, and
spare us the retribution of Hell. These will receive the share
they have earned. GOD is most efficient in reckoning."
(2:201-202)
There is no crime in being greedy for both
this world AND the next, as long as the one being asked is
GOD Alone!.
Conclusion:
Now that we have shown how GOD's system is
at work, you should ask yourself: 'Are ALL my prayers being
answered?'.
If the answer is 'No'...then you need to
examine 2 elements in your life:
Do you believe in GOD Alone (no power
or place for anything or anyone else)?;
Do you lead a 'Righteous' life? (as drawn-out by the 'Straight
Path' 6:151-153).
Peace
Noah
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