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Preparing for Ramadan

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Topic: Preparing for Ramadan
Posted By: Alwardah
Subject: Preparing for Ramadan
Date Posted: 16 August 2008 at 12:35am

As Salamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

 

With the blessed month of Ramadan just a around the corner, I started this thread to help us prepare and look forward to this month at the same time getting the maximum benefit and spending our time wisely during this month, the Month of Fasting and the month of the Qur'an.

 

 

"O ye who believe! Fasting is prescribed to you as it was prescribed to those before so that you may attain Taqwa."(Surah Baqarah 2:183)

 

 

Abu Sa'id Al-Khudri, (Radhi Allahu Anhu) reported:  Allah's Messenger (Sallallahu 'Alayhi wa Sallam) said:

 

�Any servant of Allah who observes one day of Fast for Allah's sake, Allah would remove his face away from the Fire (of Hell) a distance equivalent to seventy years.�

(Sahih Muslim: 1948)

 

Abu Umaamah (Radhi Allahu Anhu) reported: "I came to the Messenger of Allah (Sallallahu 'Alayhi wa Sallam) and said: "Order me to do a deed that will allow me to enter Paradise." He (Sallallahu 'Alayhi wa Sallam) then said: 'Stick to fasting, as there is no equivalent to it.' Then I came to him again and he (Sallallahu 'Alayhi wa Sallam) said: 'Stick to fasting.'" (Ahmad])

 

 

Further it is recommended to fast in this month (Shaban) in preparation for Ramadan.

 

Aishah (Radhi Allahu Anha) said: "I never saw the Messenger of Allah fast a complete month except for Ramadan, and I have never seen him fast more in a month than he did in Sha�ban." (Al-Bukhari and Muslim)

 

 

Usamah ibn Zaid (Radhi Allahu Anhu) inquired: "O Messenger of Allah, I never find you fasting in any month like you do during the month of Sha�ban." The Prophet (Sallallahu 'Alayhi wa Sallam) responded: "That is the month the people neglect. It comes between Rajab and Ramadan. It is a month in which the deeds are raised to the Lord of the Worlds. I love that my deeds be raised while I am fasting." (An-Nasa�i)

 

 

Since we are now in the month of Sha�ban I wish to remind the members especially the sisters to complete their missed fast from last year.

 

The Dua of the Prophet (Sallallahu 'Alayhi wa Sallam) and the Sahabi (Radhi Allahu Anhum)

 

O Allah! Bless us during Rajab and Sha�ban, and let us reach Ramadan (in good health).

 

 

Share any good articles, links or tell us how you are preparing for Ramadan.

 

Wa Alaikum Salam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu



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�Verily your Lord is quick in punishment; yet He is indeed Oft-Forgiving Most Merciful (Surah Al-An�am 6:165)
"Indeed, we belong to Allah and to Him is our return" (Surah Baqarah 2: 155)



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Posted By: seekshidayath
Date Posted: 29 August 2008 at 7:00pm
As'Salamu Alaikum,
 
 A forwarded mail, is being shared below. Hope we benefit from it
 
A lot of us yearn to prepare for Ramadan, but we have no idea how to start. Below are a few tips to Insha�Allah help prepare our minds and hearts for this upcoming Month of Mercy.
 
1. Making the Intention

Simple to do and has a powerful impact. Maybe you want to prepare for Ramadan, but between school, work, family, and any other activities, you just have no idea how to fit in �Preparing for Ramadan� time. Instead of making �preparing for Ramadan� something separate from your daily activities, MAKE your daily activities a means of preparation for Ramadan.

For example, perhaps your mom asked you to pick up your brother from school on the day you finally had time to read a few extra pages of Qur�an. Instead of feeling upset and feeling like you have lost a great preparation for Ramadan opportunity, make the intention that you are picking up your brother to please Allah subhanahu wa ta�ala and prepare for Ramadan by obeying your mother, helping your family members, building ties of kinship� and the list continues.

The point is that preparing for Ramadan does not have to be some magnificent, enormous, extra-special thing that needs to be done at a certain time of the day. Many of your daily actions can be turned into Ramadan preparation actions with a sincere intention, Insha�Allah .

2. Do these easy-to-reap- reward actions:
  1. Asking Allah to forgive your brothers and sisters. �Whoever seeks forgiveness for believing men and believing woman, Allah will write for him a good deed for each believing man and believing woman.� [at-Tabarani, classed as hasan by al-Albani]
  1. It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah (raa) said �The Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) said: �Whoever says subhanALLAH wa bi hamdih (praise and glory be to Allah) 100 times, morning and evening, his sins will be erased even if they are like the foam on the sea.� Narrated by al-Bukhari, 6042; Muslim 2691
  1. If a person says �SubhanALLAH� (glory be to Allah) 100 times, a thousand good deeds are recorded for him and a thousand bad deeds are wiped away. Narrated by Muslim 2073
  1. Remember Allah when you go shopping : �Whoever enters a market and says:
    �Laa ilaha illallah wahdahu la shareeka lah
    u, lahul mulku wa lahul hamdu yuhi wa yumeetu wa huwa hayyun laa yamoot, bi yadihil khair, wa huwa �ala kulli shayin qadeer�[there is nothing worthy of worship except Allah, alone without partner, to Him belongs dominion and praise, He causes life and death and He is the Living and does not die. In His Hand is all the good, and He is over all things competent]Allah will write for him/her a million good deeds and erase a million bad deeds and raise him a million levels.� [at-Tirmidhi, classed as hasan by al-Albani]
3. Up your worship

To help condition your heart for this blessed month, intensify your worship before Ramadan begins. Just a small, consistent amount is enough. The Prophet, sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam told us:

�The deeds most loved by Allah are those done regularly, even if they are small.�

For example, if I always pray 2 rakats of sunnah after ishaa, from this day until Ramadan begins- and even through Ramadan, let me make the intention that I will now pray 2 extra rakats of sunnah after ishaa. And every time I pray these extra 2 rakats, which are more than what I normally pray, let me remember that I am doing these with the intention of asking Allah to help me be prepared to strive and exert my utmost effort during Ramadan.

4. Make a duaa list today

This is THE MONTH to ask for EVERYTHING, both related to this life and the Next. Let us not wait until the last 10 nights to make special duaas, and then once Eid passes realize that we had completely forgotten about fifty other things we needed to make dua for. Let us start making our lists now, and add to it as more things come our way. Insha�Allah this should help us remember to make constant dua in this month where dua is accepted, and help our hearts pour out to the One Who can make those dua�s happen, subhanahu wa ta�ala.

5. Write out your objectives for Ramadan

Praying all of your fard prayers? Praying all of your sunnahs? Reading the entire Qur�an? Giving $1 charity a day? Making Itekaaf in the masjid? Leaving one serious sin that you�ve been trying to get away from for some time now? Sincerely turning completely back to Allah?

Write out a list, put them somewhere you will see them, and make dua for your success in fulfilling these objectives.

6. Make a plan!

Look at your objectives, and try to make a plan on how to actualize those objectives in this month.

For example, perhaps you are really struggling to pray your sunnah prayers. In this month, realize the enormity of the ajr of praying the sunnah prayers� think that perhaps these sunnahs will be the deeds that will be so heavy on your scale of good deeds when you are intense need of them- on Yawm al Qiyâmah . Therefore, fight to keep doing them all throughout Ramadan. If you can�t pray your 2 rakats after dhur right away, make sure to do them as soon as you get a chance.

Thus, your plan might look something like this:

Objective: Pray all of my fard prayers.

Method: Envision myself on the day of judgment seeing the Insha�Allah weight of praying my sunnah consistently during this month. Make sure to pray sunnah salah immediately after salah. If I cannot, do it as soon as the opportunity arises� don�t let myself put it off!

Another example is that of finishing the Qur�an:

Objective: Finishing the entire Qur�an in this month.

Method: Read 4 pages of the Qur�an after every salah. 5 prayers X 4 pages = 20 pages. 20 pages= about 1 juz. 1 juz X 30= the entire Qur�an.


So many Muslims have passed away since last month. So many people have not made it to Ramadan this year. Last year was their very last Ramadan.. Will you make it to this Ramadan? Will this be your last Ramadan?
Aim to strive in this Ramadan. With a very small amount of effort, such as just making a small intention, or adding a few extra acts of worship, we pray that Allah will help our hearts soften and honor us with making it easy to turn to Him and open up to Him.
May Allah make us of the successful in Ramadan, and make it easy for us to turn to Him completely and perpetually. Ameen



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Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: �All the descendants of Adam are sinners, and the best of sinners are those who repent."


Posted By: Chrysalis
Date Posted: 25 September 2008 at 12:20pm
Well, I've thought about inviting a couple of non-muslim friends for Iftaar :)  Inshalah.

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"O Lord, forgive me, my parents and Muslims in the Hereafter. O Lord, show mercy on them as they showed mercy to me when I was young."


Posted By: Alwardah
Date Posted: 26 September 2008 at 4:36am
As Salamu Alaikum
 
That is a lovely Smile
 
Let's us know how it went.
 
Salams


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�Verily your Lord is quick in punishment; yet He is indeed Oft-Forgiving Most Merciful (Surah Al-An�am 6:165)
"Indeed, we belong to Allah and to Him is our return" (Surah Baqarah 2: 155)


Posted By: Chrysalis
Date Posted: 26 September 2008 at 11:31am
Yes. One of them is a non-practising Christian by birth . . . the other is a Free-Thinker, and she is actually one of the most tolerant, and curious non-muslims ive met in person. Asks a lot abt islam . . . and i have never ever detected even a hint of sarcasm, or intolerance in her, she isnt 'ineterested' in Islam, simply to critisize it and prove her 'intellectual-ness' , but is genuinely curious - which is rare!

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"O Lord, forgive me, my parents and Muslims in the Hereafter. O Lord, show mercy on them as they showed mercy to me when I was young."



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