Divorce Matter
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Topic: Divorce Matter
Posted By: query
Subject: Divorce Matter
Date Posted: 09 December 2009 at 9:58am
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Aslamolikum. Kindly require guidance in this matter. A muslim lady which Iam familiar to is in emotional pressure, her domestic affairs are very erruptly distrubed. Her husband is ignoring their infiant child and have sent divorce notice letter. She is educated lady, also jobs nowadays are very difficult to acquire worldwide. She is also facing this circumstance. Can any one put forward any guidance, salaah, or surah specific for such problems. Wasalaam |
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Posted By: Hayfa
Date Posted: 10 December 2009 at 8:30am
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Asaalam Alaikum, Welcome to the forum.. I m sure some others can give specific surah and duas. I am sorry your friend is going through these struggles. May Allah ease her burdens. What does SHE want? Hayfa ------------- When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy. Rumi |
Posted By: query
Date Posted: 12 December 2009 at 11:17pm
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W'Salaam, Actually I didnt have the guts to discuse this matter with her, and also I have age difference to discuss these matters with her in detail. To make dua / Khatam from my behalf for her problems, or to possible to tell her. Thanks and Regards. |
Posted By: fais
Date Posted: 14 December 2009 at 9:19pm
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Salam,
I dont know which part of the world you are but if a man has decided to give divorce than he can do it by just sending a legal paper with 2 witnesses,i dont know how law works in your country,
First of al the word khatam kind of things are bidaa but you can always do dua for her,i think you belong to the subcontinent.
What eactly she wants,she want that man to stay in her life.i will pray for her best.
Tell her to read this
11 time duru sharif
11 times -ya badiul ajaaibi bil khairi ya badihu.
11 times duru sharif
I heard this amal from someone when my wife decided to take khula from me.Finallly she took it but maybe this was the best for me.
May allah do the best for her,and dont think if he walksout of her life what will happen,everybody is born with their own risk,believe me sister it may happen that if that man leaves her might be deprived of his livlihood as he may be was getting this risk beacause he was the bread earner of the sister and their child.so lets hope for the best action from ALLAH.do let us know what happen.
Regards
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Posted By: query
Date Posted: 15 December 2009 at 9:29am
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W'salaam,
Thanks for providing the verses, will let her know that and hopefully these recitation and belief cleared your burden. Also, before I knew, these were read for difficult solutions, but didnt know they were also used in divorce matters. Thanks again for your reply. Regards ans Salaam. |
Posted By: fais
Date Posted: 15 December 2009 at 8:51pm
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Salam, well this is a dua and not a verse in quran,and yes it is read in difficult situation so talaq is one it. may allah help your sister in this difficult time
Regards
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Posted By: Full of Hopes
Date Posted: 17 December 2009 at 6:30am
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Asslamu Alaikum May Allah help you dear sister. We are tested in this life to be stronger. These are some duaa from the TRUE sunnah and Quraan.. They are VERY useful in difficulty.. http://www.islamicity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15656 - http://www.islamicity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15656 And this is another post about overcoming tests from Allah, and it is full of duaa.. http://www.islamicity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15627 - http://www.islamicity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15627 Forgive me for the late reply..  -------------  And whoever seeks a religion other than Isl�m, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers(3:85)
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Posted By: seekshidayath
Date Posted: 18 December 2009 at 6:42am
As Salamu Alaikum May Allah swt reward you for the concern you holded for the questioner. Can u kindly share the source of the wazaif you shared - "Ya badiu ---" I need the reference from Qur'an and sunnah. As far as i know, its a bidah. There's no hadith that shall support it. ------------- Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: �All the descendants of Adam are sinners, and the best of sinners are those who repent." |
fais wrote:Posted By: fais
Date Posted: 18 December 2009 at 3:15pm
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Salam sister,
i cannot give you the source but this was given to us by a very good orater of islamic reasearch foundation who are known for thier anti shirk i deology,i think FOH can explain this in english it has a very good meaning.and any dua wich starts and ends with a durud is very effective.
regards
fais
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Posted By: seekshidayath
Date Posted: 19 December 2009 at 6:23am
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Walaikum Salam wa rahmatullah
Even if Zakir Naik says me, i shall ask him for reference from Qur'an and sunnah. Am right now not concerned with the meaning {Ya Badiu is one of the attributes of Allah} , but would like to know if its prescibed to us. Any dua we make shud be started with durud and also end with it, but the dua you shared or the number of times, needs approval from Qur'an and sunnah ------------- Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: �All the descendants of Adam are sinners, and the best of sinners are those who repent." |