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Is it allowed for to look at educational sex dvd

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Topic: Is it allowed for to look at educational sex dvd

Posted By: si_d_2003
Subject: Is it allowed for to look at educational sex dvd
Date Posted: 18 October 2010 at 3:47pm

Hello, me and my wife have been having meetings with a sex therepist who is helping us have a better sex life because my wife has a medical condition. The therepist recommended looking at an educational sex dvd for positions. Is this allowed in Islam?

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Posted By: abuayisha
Date Posted: 19 October 2010 at 7:53pm

Is it possible the therapist could maybe illustrate using dolls during your meetings?

Posted By: si_d_2003
Date Posted: 20 October 2010 at 4:35pm

not really because i cannot attend them due to work. the appointment is also not very long soshe doesnt have time show show much. Its not like the dvd is porn and i dont think it shows too much details, but it would really help us.

Posted By: abuayisha
Date Posted: 21 October 2010 at 6:50am

Well I'm sure your wife can explore these issues with her therapist and properly instruct you concerning details. Allah bless you for your efforts as this is very important.

Posted By: jlyell
Date Posted: 02 November 2010 at 10:10am

Shouldn't be a problem and would be a good thing to work out. Bless you my friend

Posted By: rich
Date Posted: 08 November 2010 at 5:41am

I think you have to look to your heart for the answers. I wish you both well and good luck

Posted By: John S
Date Posted: 07 March 2011 at 5:23pm

If your intent is pure, and is for the betterment of your marriage, you should be on solid ground. Otherwise, if you find yourself watching it for the 'entertainment' you're watching it for the wrong reasons and at that point it's haram. Don't let your thoughts stray, and watch it with your wife present- just as she should be doing with you. What is in your heart is between you and Allah(swt), so make sure you're doing the right thing with this.