Bismillah,

Please anyone who is interested take notice of this personal threat from Zaman to me in my pm.  I wouldn't have opened it at all, but I couldn't see another way to forward this to administration or to make public this threat.  I would appreciate it if someone would do something about this.  

Thanks.

uzubillahi minash shaitan ir rajeem, Bismillah ir rahman ir Rahim, ZamanH wrote: I really feel sorry for Nausheen's  husband. Poor fellow, he remains frustrated even after marriage. I strongly suggest he considers marrying, once more. Provision of polygamy meant for men like him. Zaman, Bad show, to be honest. Despite of all your misbehavior towards me in the very beginning , I thought you were a good person. The reason for your personal attack, I can think of is that ... you could not come up with a good argument to my posts in other threads, which is a very cheap attitude to say the least. I treat this place as my second home, and most of the ppl who I talk with, I also take them as a part of my family. However there have been some people who are not worth this. There are some of you, who resort to insult when you either do not understand what I am trying to say, or find my words too sharp. You think it is fair, but to me it only seems you are too weak! And dont worry, its not just you, there are others too who do the same, I feel sorry for all of you who resort to this! You can never get your point accross through insults, always remeber this. Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullah wa barkatuhu. This should be seen as an example by everyone that I won't tolerate an insults directed towards me in this forum. I promise I will react ten times worse. Nausheen wrote the following to me and blamed me for not understanding the "spirit" in which it was written. Quote: I dont think there would be any man foolish enough or courageous enough to tell his wife about his affair, unless he knows well that his wife is too weak to be able to make his life miserable for this. All the best to you Zaman! Maa salaama, Nausheen I don't understand what can be made out of it other than that she is comparing me with the man (and thus, hinting that I am like him) who is licentious and tells his wife about it (but, I give Nausheen the benefit of doubt and admit my mistake here in acting in haste). But if anyone has told me that in person, by Allah, I would have changed my name, if I had left any of his bones unbroken. Simply because I am not a senior member here, does not mean that I don't have any respect. I don't personally attack others unless they attack me first. I expect the same from everyone, too. No one who knows me dares to talk like that with me. Its easy for those who insult me here, sit as they do behind their computer screen. Normally, my foot and hands would do the talking from my side. Herjihad I wrote this one, particularly for you. I excused you once, because you didn't understand the context then. But not any further. Consider this your last warning.

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rami wrote:   I am considering banning you from this forum but will only do so if the other moderators agree on this action, this is not a light matter.

Some people are so pathetic they are not even worth a comment, let alone any action.

...Wa tuizzu mantashao, wa tuzillu mantashao biyadikal khair wa huwa ala kulli shai in Qadeer.

It is not in anyone's power to insult or abase anyone. Subhan allah - the least they do is expose themselves in public.

His warnings to Herjihad are empty. However if sister Herjihad wants this person to be banned, then you should go ahead and do it.

Btw, this is my opinion, it would be nice if you wait for brother Mockba's opinion as well.

Maa salaama

Nausheen wrote: Auzubillahi minash shaitan ir rajeem, Bismillah ir rahman ir rahim, Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullah wa barkatuhu, rami wrote:   I am considering banning you from this forum but will only do so if the other moderators agree on this action, this is not a light matter. Some people are so pathetic they are not even worth a comment, let alone any action. ...Wa tuizzu mantashao, wa tuzillu mantashao biyadikal khair wa huwa ala kulli shai in Qadeer. It is not in anyone's power to insult or abase anyone. Subhan allah - the least they do is expose themselves in public. His warnings to Herjihad are empty. However if sister Herjihad wants this person to be banned, then you should go ahead and do it. Btw, this is my opinion, it would be nice if you wait for brother Mockba's opinion as well. Maa salaama

His warnings are empty? Do you understand there is technology today where the person can tell where you are and in what city you are typing just by your IP address? A threat should be taken seriously at all times. Some people are crazy and think it is their personal responsibility to find you no matter what. And it can be done!

Lameese

Bismillah ir rahman ir rahim,

You people are right. I was not thinking with a clear head at that time.

First he said he does not forgive but gets even with people. Now he is saying that he is ten times worse (than getting even may be).

Banning this person will still not stop him from finding out the wearabouts of people if he wants to. Therefore besides banning, Meedo's opinion should be taken into account.

I am suspending the account temporarily, and we will see how things can be taken from there.

Thank you for your comments Lameese, and Meedo.

Maa salaama,

Nausheen

I echo the same sentiments Lameese said:

>>His warnings are empty? Do you understand there is technology today where the person can tell where you are and in what city you are typing just by your IP address?<<

I was P.O. when I saw his comment without even giving me his opinion on the subject of Gaza stating : I suggest you mind your own business." Then have the audacity to copy and past what the word "suggest" means. Not only is that an insult but pure stupidity. I agree that words shouldn't be taken likely but then again is the web that serious enough to where when we discuss issues concerning the word it drives us to take another human's life? I believe humans are capable of being that low and I hope Zaman is not one of them.

Herjihad Glory be to Allah and to him belongs all glory I say forgive him because to forgive is a mental difficulty and to strive in difficulty ios better than to hate in ease. I forgive him and I hope whatever I said to him he forgives but its weakness for any of us to hold things against another in light of their ignorance. On the Day of Judgement God is a witness and he knows best Allahu Alim!

Bismillah,

Thank you Rami, Lameese, Meedo, Nausheen and Israfil.  I will think about what you said, ISA, Israfil.  I think I just want everyone here to know that we cannot make open physical threats to each other.  This needs to be a place for peaceful discussion.

Bismillah

Assalamu'alaikum Brothers and Sisters,

It seems that as humans we have developed another basic need... need to dramatize situation, need for artificial conflicts that often evolve into full-fledged wars, as we grow with them. 

Perhaps being exposed to otiose TV programs and having violent movies and mad videos streaming directly into our head we all find ourselves acting and in need of creating similar theatrical environment in our lives.

Threats... sophisticated technologies... misconduct... tracking systems... empty talk. Waste of time, Brothers and Sisters.... mere waste of time.

Anyone who wishes to entertain these kind of conversations and discussions should at least try to bring it outside of this forum. Any misconduct should not be tolerated and users spotted behaving in such manner should be "given an opportunity" to chill out without having access to this forum for some time. The most effective approach, however, would be silence treatment... without having to associate oneself with someone else's misconduct. 

MOCKBA wrote: Bismillah Assalamu'alaikum Brothers and Sisters, It seems that as humans we have developed another basic need... need to dramatize situation, need for artificial conflicts that often evolve into full-fledged wars, as we grow with them.  Perhaps being exposed to otiose TV programs and having violent movies and mad videos streaming directly into our head we all find ourselves acting and in need of creating similar theatrical environment in our lives. Threats... sophisticated technologies... misconduct... tracking systems... empty talk. Waste of time, Brothers and Sisters.... mere waste of time. Anyone who wishes to entertain these kind of conversations and discussions should at least try to bring it outside of this forum. Any misconduct should not be tolerated and users spotted behaving in such manner should be "given an opportunity" to chill out without having access to this forum for some time. The most effective approach, however, would be silence treatment... without having to associate oneself with someone else's misconduct.

*Rolls her eyes*

Bismillah,

Hawk, the enter key makes a paragraph and makes it easier to read what you write. 

Although, it was a bunch of nonsense.  This sight isn't for atheists to bash believers!

Rami, isn't Austrailia in the west?  I don't know who made up the rule that west bashing is okay.  It's ignorant.  I could repeat all the arguments that other people and myself have stated, but you have read those already, right?

Why don't we all stop making bold generalizations about the west, the east, Muslims, Christians, et cetera because it makes us look foolish?

Rami, isn't Austrailia in the west?  I don't know who made up the rule that west bashing is okay.  It's ignorant.  I could repeat all the arguments that other people and myself have stated, but you have read those already, right?

Yes it is a western country, which gives more weight to my argument since i am speaking from experiance. Using the term west bashing for any critisism against the west is stereotypical garbage which people use for any critisism justified or otherwise it makes things ignorantly simple. Maybe you are blindly defending the west out of nationalistic pride, the west is not a person.

i also resent the term west bashing being used in light of obvious fact, western countries are secular.

Why don't we all stop making bold generalizations about the west, the east, Muslims, Christians, et cetera because it makes us look foolish?

A generalisation in this case is a general description of an overwhelming mentality/characteristic of a people, it does not apply to every person that would be an absolute statment.

An eg of a generelisation is that Austrlians are Alcoholics (using a stricter defanition fo the word), generaly it is true but many austrlians do not even drink.

just adding;

Basicly, simply becouse a statment is a generalisation does not make it incorrect or an abusive statment, saying all westerners are immoral is but this is a vastly different type of comment than the what i said.